"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Expert Advice Needed: Situational Game Plan Needed

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Alright so here's the story. I saw this girl stairing at me in the mall about 2 weeks ago and she waved at me. I approached her gott her number. Been texting her. She stopped being able to text for a week when she got her phone taken away but I been talking to her since. I've talken to her on the phone briefly twice. But anyway we had to texting sessions that last for hours two days in a row. So anyway. I wanna make plans to hang out with her next week. What should be my game plan to keep me on her mind and keep interest up over a week? How many time should I text her over the week to? I don't wanna text her too much. Just looking for a little help for my game plan for the next week.

Check my post history and look at my last few threads real quick and you can see the full situation
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok I'm not trying to be harsh here, but you are having texting sessions that last for hours?????????? Are you a man or a girl? Girl's have texting sessions that last for hours, not adult men with many things to do on their plate.

IF she hasnt already LJBF's you already, she should have.
 
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They were during school and she insisted on texting me when i told her I'd talk to her later one of those times. It's hard to establish anything when we havent had physical contact since meeting ya know? We've even talked about some mildly sexual subjects. I really am worried about being LJBF'd so that's why I want to re-evaluate a game plan for the week. This isn't practice this time, I actually want this girl.

Another thing, what do you do if you text someone and don't get a text back right away (this hasn't applied to this situation yet)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BRO!

calm down...

you post like every two hours to see if anyone else has some tips...

your going all crazy just because she is probably your first pick up...


just text her when you can. Dont go out of your way to text her...if your with your friends then dont reply every minuet, take like 15 minuets or so...

you should not be thinking about when to reply.

you should be so caught up in your life that you reply when you can...

just do your own thang and do work
 
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It's not that she's the first number I picked up it's just that I want her. Her eyes are so beautiful. but anyway, anyone wanna come up with somone sick to say to start an interesting conversation with her? I'll try to text her less. On Thursday morning though she texted me first.
 
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It's not that she's the first number I picked up it's just that I want her. Her eyes are so beautiful. but anyway, anyone wanna come up with somone sick to say to start an interesting conversation with her? I'll try to text her less. On Thursday morning though she texted me first.
 
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Update: I happened to cross paths with her at the mall. She waved, and I didn't recognize her. She textted me and told me she saw me and I texted her. Then on my way back I'm walking towards the exit and she calls my name out I approach her and talk to her for a bit. She was with two friends. A male and a female (these two may have been dating). So I stayed about ten minutes and had to leave as I was busy but I gave her a hug before I left
 
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Dante420 said:
I don't wanna text her too much.
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LOL.... a little late for that dude. You just said you've had text sessions that lasted for hours already and now your suddenly concerned about texting too much??

You need to work on your self-confidence because the front your pulling with her will soon be exposed. A confident man doesn't follow any hard set rules when it comes to women, because each situation is different. As long as your congruent with your actions everything will be okay. However, if your worried about things already, its not looking good.

Instead of textin her so much, go set up a get together and start escalating the attraction.




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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well believe those two long texting sessions were successful, nothing i regrt there. good conversation that even got onto mildly sexual topics.
 
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