Experimented with openers

[upsidedownside7]

Been reading some stuff from the ASF board on how to open people. I read examples like start with a small factual routine or ask a question that doesn't require your target to think. Got the opportunity and tried a few of the questions. Now these examples posted were stuff like....Apples or Bananas? Tacos or Burritos? I thought it would be incredibly lame but did it twice anyways and suprisingly got some good reactions.

I made it a point to talk with some oomph in my voice.

#1 cute girl, No eye contact no nothing I bust out with
"Hey.....Tacos or Burritos?" I know, it sounds retarded...
I got a smile and she said Tacos. I completely improvised off the cuff about a new Chipotle place opening in my area and how I love their food. I managed to BS for a few minutes then she started asking me some questions. This girl was cute but getting her # was not the goal. Mission accomplished so I jetted.

#2 hot girl, sitting on a bench alone. Go sit near her and said a statement:
"Should be more crammed then this"
She said "yeah" and got quiet.
I improvised and just made an emphasis to make statements. Talked about how every quarter nobody goes to school anymore when its close to break. She then went on and chatted a bit. I did not want to go down the conventional route and ask her "where are u from etc etc" but I had nothing else. The good part is she talked for a minute and by the time she was done my friend rolled by. I got up and said c-ya around and chatted with him. I definitley would have wanted to bang that chick. Opening her felt good. I thought to myself "your in...now what?"

Chatting to people like you know them is hard but it definitley put these girls at ease. 1st chick thew some signals, 2nd was chill and very nonchalant but nice. Naturals of the game, spit me some advice...

 

[Damian]

Good job on doing openers. You can initiate a conversation well, that's excellent. Next thing you need to do is create attraction. If you look at tactics such as the Mystery Method (just as an example), you can create attraction which will ignite the relationship.

Try some kino. Give her a little touch on the arm. You'd be surprised how a little bit of physical contact can make her like you more. Just know when do it, or you'll seem like a rapist. With you social skills, I trust that you will know when this is.

Anyway, good job, and keep up the good work.

-Damian

*ptooey*

 

[syncmaster]

Originally posted by upsidedownside7

"Hey.....Tacos or Burritos?"

I LOVE that kind of opener. Try this one too... "How many oceans are there?"

It's great and really under the radar.