Experiment: Pushing through games

[tryst type]

Ok, I'm not going to lie I'm currently frustrated with game playing and the fact that it IS a game that women love to play.

I've been having piss poor success getting a second date even when the girl seems super attracted and all (seemingly) went well on the first meet.

I know from experience and tales that generally you need to create momentum and anticipation/mystery to get second date 85% of the time especially with the younger women.

Well if game playing is what they thrive on (and openly disagree about) I'm going to try doing it to the extreme to see if it forces her patience to a feeling of loss.

Here's what I'm going to do:

At the end of the first date if and only I felt a good vibe and that there could be potential for a second meeting, I'm going to have a fake pre-scripted text exchange screen capped saved into my pictures handy and will make appear as if my phone has been going off all night.

I'll act a bit annoyed and say "I'm sorry this girl I met keeps texting saying she's in the area and wants to say hi"

I'll give her a quick glimpse of the "text exchange"

And say something like, "you know it's a little annoying she's constantly hitting me up, but I have to admit her persistence is kind of hot."

Then I'll change subject for a couple minutes and dismiss myself from the date.

I know this is conniving but I don't care, they pull this same crap and days are wasted.

Any thoughts? The idea is to show I like assertive women who don't waste time

 

[Knight's Cross]

We used to have a saying in After Action briefs in the military," but it briefed well". Meaning your best laid plans went to crap when you tried to execute them.
My input is don't do it. Seriously, try this one on for size.
1. Get 1st date setup, drinks, coffee, simple stuff.
2. Go on date and be fun, kino it up if the pupils are dilated and she's laughing.
3. Keep date brief <85 minutes. Don't keep looking at your watch, but do not under any circumstances go long.
4. Tell her you had fun and don't insinuate any further dates.
5. If there was a good vibe, in no certain hurry ask her out for something more action oriented. Museum, hike, run, beach, etc.

KC

 

[tryst type]

Ask when, same night? I usually say "it was nice meeting you, don't be scared to keep in touch and to shoot me a text when you're home (if we both met half way somewhere and there's a bit of driving)"

Usually I get nothing and I'm hesitant to initiate since I told them to get in touch.

 

[Colossus]

Tryst I think you are trying WAY too hard. They can sense it. Stop saying stuff like this ^.

Follow KC's advice. Simple, short first dates, then end it with a "Well I had a nice time. Let's do it again sometime."

Then go.

Give it a day or two, and if she doesn't call/text but seemed like she had solid interest, just fvcking ask her out again for an action date. E-Z.

If she seems flakey or wishy-washy about a second date, then just move on and forget about her.

 

[tryst type]

Tryst I think you are trying WAY too hard. They can sense it. Stop saying stuff like this ^.

Follow KC's advice. Simple, short first dates, then end it with a "Well I had a nice time. Let's do it again sometime."

Then go.

Give it a day or two, and if she doesn't call/text but seemed like she had solid interest, just fvcking ask her out again for an action date. E-Z.

If she seems flakey or wishy-washy about a second date, then just move on and forget about her.

Sounds good to me.

 

[disgustipated]

I prefer action first. Lay the ground work you are a fun and exciting guy. A few venue changes...make them seem spontaneous but actually pre plan that ****. Make em feel.like they been swept up in a whirlwind of action. Den **** em.

 

[tryst type]

I prefer action first. Lay the ground work you are a fun and exciting guy. A few venue changes...make them seem spontaneous but actually pre plan that ****. Make em feel.like they been swept up in a whirlwind of action. Den **** em.

I've noticed the only time a second date seems easy or happens almost with no effort is when I f*ck them on the first meet up. Of course not all are down for that or at least pretend they're not.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Whatever you do, do NOT do the fake text thing.
Any woman with half a brain will think one or some of the following:
1. You're desperate and trying too hard to qualify yourself to her.
2. You're lying and a weirdo.
3. You're a player with multiple women on the go (not entirely a bad thing).
4. Why the fvck is he telling me this????