"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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playerone

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Alright, i knew this girl online. We're texting and talking on the phone these days. It has been on for about a week. Initially, we set a date on this saturday. But she has injured her ankle and it's swollen up, so she went for x-ray and stuff.

Most probably she's not able to go out much. These days i'm just busy doing my thing in the day, and she'll text me at night. Sometimes she would call after a few texts. I'm probably getting the highest interest level i can get right now, before meeting up in person.

The problem is, while talking over the phone, I asked her about saturday, and she said she can't really walk comfortably, so it's off. Then, i asked her which day she was free and could hang out. She said she has a few tests next week, and it is her school vacation after next week.

Then I asked her again on which day she's free to hang out, and she said that she doesn't know, as she lives day by day, and doesn't really plan ahead. I said, "Okay then", and just told her to read her message inbox and bye.

Few minutes later, she texted me and said, "Sorry, I'm just not in the right frame of mind today :[". By the way, she just received her results today and didn't do as well as she expected. So yeah, she was kind of moody and texted me.

Now, what i'm thinking is, I don't really want to text and talk on the phone so much with this girl, simply because i haven't met her. I want to fix a date and leave it up to that day, as we're comfortable enough with each other, and i'm gaming her pretty well so far. But, she has an injured ankle which forbids her to do that, and most likely we can only meet up after next week, which is her school vacation.

What do i do in the meantime?

Need some expert advice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Talk to new women?

For god sakes man, you haven't even hung out with this chick in person. For all you know she may not even like you and blow you off after the first date. Stop putting so much time and thinking into this girl and get your mind right. We alot time to women who deserve our time, not women we hardly know.

I was actually reading waiting for you to say you offered to come by her place since she can't walk, but thankfully you didn't. Again, alot time only to women who have alotted time to you.
 

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She pm'ed me on MSN today, i replied and she didn't reply. Figured she went out or something as she always leaves the computer on.

Just saw some form of a sh!t test coming my way. She changed part of her MSN nick to "itfeelslikeidontmatteranymore".

What's your take on this, guys.
 
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