playainthemaking
Don Juan
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Hey guys so i started to date this chick and before we even met she told me she had some issues. She told me about how her life is controlled by her father and that she is not happy. She stated that she liked to drink to make her pain go away form all the unhappiness in her life. So anyways i told her that I wont judge her and that i still would like to see her and take her out. So i met we set up a time and i planned a fun action date.
Day of date)
So we meet up and she is really nice and gives me a big hug right off the bat, She is very responsive to my questioning and we seem to have great conversation in car over. So we get to the bowling alley and we get all fitted and have a blast. She laughed and was constantly smiling and seemed to really enjoy our time. We got close looking at a menu for food they had there and she didn't pull back or anything. Then without hesitation she sips from my drink after finishing her own. Overall a good time in my book.
Next i was gonna take her on the second part of my date but her dad called and she told me she would have to be home at 5 30 which was about 2 hours from now. She mentioned she would like to go to the mall that i had told her about on the way to the bowling alley which was brand new. So we go to the mall and again have great conversation about her life and random ****. We went into spencers which is a odd store with all kinds of cool stuff. We laughed our asses off reading the random tee shirts and again seemed to just have a blast. After walking around the mall for a bit longer it was around that time to go so we did.
On our drive back I told asked her if she wanted to meet up again on Friday and she agreed. I know this was a little soon but our date was on a Tuesday and not much was going on so i felt it would be better to do it sooner. Anyways she agreed and seemed to be happy about it. I take her to her house and she again is just talking and open to me. She tells me about how she breaks into her house when she forgets her keys and her dad gets pissed off. She gives me a big hug and I say bye and i go home.
Now to the odd part. So basically we really began chatting it up on aim. On our date she gave me her cell number and home phone number. She was hesitant to show me where she lived at first but after our date asked me to drop her off cause she was comfortable. Basically the next day(Wednesday) i send her a message and and tell her i had a good time to which she replies she did too. I write some other stuff right after but she doesn't respond. I ask her if something is wrong and she signs off. At this point i think that she had a problem with her dad so i call her and ask her if everything is alright. She replies that "all is well" and i tell her "okay i just wanted to make sure you weren't drinking again" which she mentioned to me numerous times before to me. I said "okay well ill call u soon about our plans on Saturday, were going to the _______ and it should be fun". She replies "yeah" and i end the conversation.
So basically late Thursday night at about 8 pm i text her and and and write to her that i will be really busy tomorrow to which she replies "okay" before i even have a chance to explain that the reason why i am texting her was to finalize our plans for Saturday she just ignores me. and doesn't get back to me at all. Now of course i was like wow wtf but i was willing to give it another try, so i called today at 11 30 and no pickup. I don't know what the hell is going on but with the chemistry that i thought we had i don't get this. I mean she gave me her numbers and allowed me to drop her off and yet all of sudden acts weird.
I don't know if shes playing a game or if shes not interested but i don't think its the second option. I called her again about a half our ago and again it went to message. This time though my friend advised me to leave a message so i did. In it i just said "hey we on for tomorrow or now, i haven't heard from u, it should be fun hit me up. Now this is the last time i will hit her up for days to come. I ain't gonna waste my time but i will let her know that this game ain't cool on Tuesday. She asked me not to hurt her cause she had been hurt by past boyfriends and to turn around and act like this is a joke. Someone please let me know wtf this is about. I mean i know someones gonna say not interested but she sent all the right signals, gave out her number and was a damn good actress if she didn't have a good time.
Either shes playing a game or shes not interested its one of the two. But i know how girls act if they aren't interested and having a good time on a date and setting second date up and agreeing happily usually ain't part of the program. Please let me know how i should go about this. and please dont just say move on, give an explanation of what is going on here.
Day of date)
So we meet up and she is really nice and gives me a big hug right off the bat, She is very responsive to my questioning and we seem to have great conversation in car over. So we get to the bowling alley and we get all fitted and have a blast. She laughed and was constantly smiling and seemed to really enjoy our time. We got close looking at a menu for food they had there and she didn't pull back or anything. Then without hesitation she sips from my drink after finishing her own. Overall a good time in my book.
Next i was gonna take her on the second part of my date but her dad called and she told me she would have to be home at 5 30 which was about 2 hours from now. She mentioned she would like to go to the mall that i had told her about on the way to the bowling alley which was brand new. So we go to the mall and again have great conversation about her life and random ****. We went into spencers which is a odd store with all kinds of cool stuff. We laughed our asses off reading the random tee shirts and again seemed to just have a blast. After walking around the mall for a bit longer it was around that time to go so we did.
On our drive back I told asked her if she wanted to meet up again on Friday and she agreed. I know this was a little soon but our date was on a Tuesday and not much was going on so i felt it would be better to do it sooner. Anyways she agreed and seemed to be happy about it. I take her to her house and she again is just talking and open to me. She tells me about how she breaks into her house when she forgets her keys and her dad gets pissed off. She gives me a big hug and I say bye and i go home.
Now to the odd part. So basically we really began chatting it up on aim. On our date she gave me her cell number and home phone number. She was hesitant to show me where she lived at first but after our date asked me to drop her off cause she was comfortable. Basically the next day(Wednesday) i send her a message and and tell her i had a good time to which she replies she did too. I write some other stuff right after but she doesn't respond. I ask her if something is wrong and she signs off. At this point i think that she had a problem with her dad so i call her and ask her if everything is alright. She replies that "all is well" and i tell her "okay i just wanted to make sure you weren't drinking again" which she mentioned to me numerous times before to me. I said "okay well ill call u soon about our plans on Saturday, were going to the _______ and it should be fun". She replies "yeah" and i end the conversation.
So basically late Thursday night at about 8 pm i text her and and and write to her that i will be really busy tomorrow to which she replies "okay" before i even have a chance to explain that the reason why i am texting her was to finalize our plans for Saturday she just ignores me. and doesn't get back to me at all. Now of course i was like wow wtf but i was willing to give it another try, so i called today at 11 30 and no pickup. I don't know what the hell is going on but with the chemistry that i thought we had i don't get this. I mean she gave me her numbers and allowed me to drop her off and yet all of sudden acts weird.
I don't know if shes playing a game or if shes not interested but i don't think its the second option. I called her again about a half our ago and again it went to message. This time though my friend advised me to leave a message so i did. In it i just said "hey we on for tomorrow or now, i haven't heard from u, it should be fun hit me up. Now this is the last time i will hit her up for days to come. I ain't gonna waste my time but i will let her know that this game ain't cool on Tuesday. She asked me not to hurt her cause she had been hurt by past boyfriends and to turn around and act like this is a joke. Someone please let me know wtf this is about. I mean i know someones gonna say not interested but she sent all the right signals, gave out her number and was a damn good actress if she didn't have a good time.
Either shes playing a game or shes not interested its one of the two. But i know how girls act if they aren't interested and having a good time on a date and setting second date up and agreeing happily usually ain't part of the program. Please let me know how i should go about this. and please dont just say move on, give an explanation of what is going on here.