"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi.

I wonder, how the heck do you get so many girls? how? where?
how old are you?
I've just had sex with one, and if I don't do a great change, it seems I'm only gonna sleep with maybe...2? 3? in my life.
No, no, nooooooooo....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pyros said:
Hi.

I wonder, how the heck do you get so many girls? how? where?
how old are you?
I've just had sex with one, and if I don't do a great change, it seems I'm only gonna sleep with maybe...2? 3? in my life.
No, no, nooooooooo....
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I'm no expert. I am 21 years old, in college. I meet these girls by expanding my social circle. Just make an effort to genuinely meet people. I am starting to befriend everyone, even if they are not "hot".

Take a look at the archive and tips of this website, it has helped me immensely.
 
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I read the best way to overcome this is to do the same thing to them. Right before it gets good. Back off, put your clothes back on and commence to regame them. Talking about not wanting to ruin a good thing. The second time around she'll be down to go 100%...
 
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It seems that girls just want to wait so they don't appear too easy, when really they wanted to have sex from the beginning.

A girl last night literally jumped on me because it was the second time she was staying over. Nothing happened the first time, but this time she went crazy! Thanks for all the tips guys, looks like i need to be more patient.
 
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Try less. I realize that this will sound oversimplified but when I can find the post that I wrote about LMR I will copy or link it here. If you are the one saying "we shouldn't be doing this" she will often be saying "I can do whatever I want." If you tell her up front that you don't want her to get the wrong idea you will often be surprised at how much women love a challenge. After I outgrew my super horn dog phase and became more selective about whom I was willing to sleep with it was amazing how easy ONS became.

Hang in there. It just gets better and better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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