"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Experienced DJs: How Do You Overcome Last Minute Resistance?

pyros

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Hi.

I wonder, how the heck do you get so many girls? how? where?
how old are you?
I've just had sex with one, and if I don't do a great change, it seems I'm only gonna sleep with maybe...2? 3? in my life.
No, no, nooooooooo....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sofomore

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pyros said:
Hi.

I wonder, how the heck do you get so many girls? how? where?
how old are you?
I've just had sex with one, and if I don't do a great change, it seems I'm only gonna sleep with maybe...2? 3? in my life.
No, no, nooooooooo....
I'm no expert. I am 21 years old, in college. I meet these girls by expanding my social circle. Just make an effort to genuinely meet people. I am starting to befriend everyone, even if they are not "hot".

Take a look at the archive and tips of this website, it has helped me immensely.
 

SgtSplacker

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I read the best way to overcome this is to do the same thing to them. Right before it gets good. Back off, put your clothes back on and commence to regame them. Talking about not wanting to ruin a good thing. The second time around she'll be down to go 100%...
 

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It seems that girls just want to wait so they don't appear too easy, when really they wanted to have sex from the beginning.

A girl last night literally jumped on me because it was the second time she was staying over. Nothing happened the first time, but this time she went crazy! Thanks for all the tips guys, looks like i need to be more patient.
 

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Try less. I realize that this will sound oversimplified but when I can find the post that I wrote about LMR I will copy or link it here. If you are the one saying "we shouldn't be doing this" she will often be saying "I can do whatever I want." If you tell her up front that you don't want her to get the wrong idea you will often be surprised at how much women love a challenge. After I outgrew my super horn dog phase and became more selective about whom I was willing to sleep with it was amazing how easy ONS became.

Hang in there. It just gets better and better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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