"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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are any of you guys afraid to get involved with a girl because she has more experience than you? i havent fooled around with a girl in about 3 years and im going out with a girl tonight and we both want something to happen but the fact she has more experience kinda scares me. like i want everything to be cool, i dont want her to go home telling all her friends and **** about how im a horrible kisser or suck at other things too. how can i get over this?, preferably by 7:30 tonight
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Three years is a long time but that doesnt mean too much. You still probably know how to do all the stuff youve done before, just not as good. The first time i made out with a girl she told my friends that i was a really good kisser. And that was last year, so dont worry and just do what you can.
 
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who gives a flying fvck what her friends will think!

before u go out, learn to relax, act naturally and don't give a fvck
- this is now my going out mentality; works well m8
 
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Dont worry, i did at first too, but everyone is unique and they will say what they say, no matter how gd or bad u are.
 
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arlight, thanks everyone. this has made me feel a lot better.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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