"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Experience with websites for women married and looking

Alerosa

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I notice many websites that are for women (and men) who are "married and looking" or similar. I notice there are many married women listed on these sites who are looking for men, but from my brief experience it seems they are all looking for single men. Interested in comments from anyone having experience with these sites. Has anyone actually met women listed on these?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Latinoman

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Alerosa said:
I notice many websites that are for women (and men) who are "married and looking" or similar. I notice there are many married women listed on these sites who are looking for men, but from my brief experience it seems they are all looking for single men. Interested in comments from anyone having experience with these sites. Has anyone actually met women listed on these?
Why would you want a woman that is already married?

Dude...that is asking for a bullet.
 

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Ouch, warning signals!

Okay, I can see how it could work to meet such a woman once ... if she lives far away, she is the right kind of woman ... it takes luck. And if you're married yourself, you'll have to worry constantly if you have given this other woman your telephone number or address. If she doesn't cause trouble, maybe her husband will - maybe he'll find out that she has been cheating, and come looking for you, and there you are with your wife listening.

Once, could perhaps work. Several times? Bound to fail.

Besides, you're not supposed to do that. You'll just feel bad afterward, like you should. Noone benefits from it, and you're taking risks that could hurt a lot of people. Of course, we've all thought of cheating, but it's definitely not worth it.
 
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