"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Experience and This Site

Bvbidd

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I'm 19 and out of HS now, but have posted a lot, some positive, some negative, some trolling, and some for entertainment. I've tried stuff in real life as well as advice I've gotten from girls (thus the lots of failure) a bit of sucess and lots of failure, and also observed how things go down.

Now some people have trouble picking out from this site what is REAL LIFE, what is POLITICALLY CORRECT, and what is complete and utter BULLSH!T.

I'll tell you the connections I've made.

If there is one thing I've learned it's that the stuff trying to be politically correct is indeed bullsh!t. The guys talking about being a good guy on the inside, watching out for her needs, and that girls are all different say that to feel normal.

Girls ARE ALL THE SAME. I've tested this out, read this site, gone out, seen what girls do, heard what they say.. etc. And the stuff on this site that say all girls do this or that are indeed to the ****ing EXACT what it says on this site. They are EXACTLY all the fvcking same. With the less attractive them being, the less it applies. For real. Whether they admit it or not is also just up their self-control.

This means

1. They all want a hot guy.

2. They all want a guy they preceive as more socially valuable then themselves.

3. They all want a guy who they can't tell really likes them. But enough to keep them thinking they do.

4. They want sex bad and will do it if they don't feel like a slut.

5. They feed off your frame of mind.

^^ That's what they like, below is what you can GET AWAY WITH.

6. They don't care if he's just out for sex.

7. They don't care if he's an assh0le. As long as it's not to her, with the exeption of sex jokes. ;)

8. Be aggressive, aggressive, aggresive, anything short of rape.

Those are the eight truths motha****as. No if's and's or but's about it. You don't need to be a PUA to do this sh!t either. PUAs make it too complicated be able to do the above.

Everything above is how they ALL think. No matter, the city, country (NA), etc.

Remember this guys, the truth is as creepy as you think it is. :woo: :up:

It's best if we all go out in the real world, and just remember these basics. It's not a matter of being a PUA or DJ it is the basic truths you learn through experience.

Last stuff to keep in mind - Deep Dish figured out chicks pretty well in a nerd like way. And Gunwitch gives you some good reliable info on how to get them horny.

It's not complicated, and the less were on this site the better. Women are still good people.

Go out and live.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3. They all want a guy who they can't tell really likes them. But enough to keep them thinking they do.
This is true in the beginning, but as the relationship progresses the girl will lose interest if she isn't certain that the guy is also interested in her. I think a better, more general way of putting this would be: you sould never show more interest in a girl than she's showing in you. Other than that minor detail, good post.
 

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I guess this is true, but I was just saying gettin laid wise.
The relationship will die down no matter what you do.
 

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The relationship will die down no matter what you do.
Overall, this is definitely true. Hell, even marriages only have about a coin-flip's chance of working. However, I still think that relationships can be worthwhile if you do them for the right reasons, and if you focus on enjoying them in the present rather than worrying about the future.
 

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wow.. Too much generalizations for me to read. Perhaps the caliber of girls you are chasin or after do that to you, but that is not all girls.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The generalizations are true.. I read what was on the site and found out what they want directly through a ton of different ways. None of which were just asking any directly. How can a guy in one state for instance automatically tell me what some random girl in another state wants to the fvcking exact? Because the generalizations apply.

You can't honestly tell me you belive there is a girl out there that doesn't fit into each of those generalizations.. she may have extra weird issues and sh!t on top of this but she'll fit into that.

Just like all people have to p!ss and you can have 100% trust in that we all fit into that generalization, all girls want these things and you can have 100% trust in this.

Trust me man, don't fool yourself into thinking your in some special situation where basic human psych doesn't apply.

I'm not going to go into an explanation on why all girls think like this.. I mean it's a combination of what they want in a guy and what they want to look like to other girls in order to not be called a slut. It's just how they are conditioned in society, nothing new.
 

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I put North America in my orginal post, as NA but yeah not noticable.

And either way that proves my point by the power of society and how it will dicate how the person will be. Therefore making the generalization true.
 
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