I finished this book recently http://www.amazon.com/The-Key-Logge...F8&qid=1383880750&sr=8-12&keywords=key+logger and it basically just confirmed what most of us should already know. Women, specifically attractive ones, have tons of options and they're very likely to take advantage of them. The book is about a dude who installed a key logger on his computer and used it to steal girl's passwords and see what they were up to on various social networks. It turns out that every single woman was caught in lies, had multiple orbiters, and some even sleeping with other men while saying otherwise. To be fair I don't think he was in an official relationship with any of these women. His expectations were a bit silly, expecting women to be faithful good girls after only seeing them for a few days. This doesn't change the fact however that all of the women lied, deceived and manipulated him and I'd imagine some of them would continue to do this had he gotten in a relationship with them.
The author made some excellent observations as to why the women behaved the way they did and how men should deal with it but I'll provide some of my own for those of you who don't feel like reading the book.
Don't get in a relationship with an attractive woman and expect her not to talk to other men. She'll lie to your face and do it behind your back. Your best defense is to be the highest value man you can be, so much so that she'll have no interest in anyone else.
Virgins are a man's best bet for an LTR. The higher the partner count the more likely she has ex's that she hasn't gotten over yet and the more promiscuous she would be. Any man who expects an attractive woman with a couple notches on her belt not to entertain the company of other men is a fool. She may or may not cheat but she'll definitely put herself in the position to do so.
I really think there's only three real options men have when dealing with women in this day and age. Always spin plates; monogamy is no longer an issue when you never promise it in the first place. Be the highest value man possible and choose a virgin with traditional values; a relationship like that has the least likelihood of a woman being unfaithful. Only form relationships with barely attractive women; lol this isn't really a choice at all but if a man is too lazy to become the high value man then forming a relationship with a chick who meets the minimum requirements of the boner test is a man's best bet for monogamy. Any other choice a man makes is setting himself up for potential failure. The woman will put herself in a position to stray and if a charming enough dude shows up she'll end up cheating. They don't call the red pill a bitter pill for nothing. Knowing the truth is sobering and can be quite depressing but it doesn't have to be. Enjoy the present moment, don't dwell on things that are beyond control, accept the nature of women and don't have unrealistic expectations of them and that pill becomes a bit more tolerable.
The author made some excellent observations as to why the women behaved the way they did and how men should deal with it but I'll provide some of my own for those of you who don't feel like reading the book.
Don't get in a relationship with an attractive woman and expect her not to talk to other men. She'll lie to your face and do it behind your back. Your best defense is to be the highest value man you can be, so much so that she'll have no interest in anyone else.
Virgins are a man's best bet for an LTR. The higher the partner count the more likely she has ex's that she hasn't gotten over yet and the more promiscuous she would be. Any man who expects an attractive woman with a couple notches on her belt not to entertain the company of other men is a fool. She may or may not cheat but she'll definitely put herself in the position to do so.
I really think there's only three real options men have when dealing with women in this day and age. Always spin plates; monogamy is no longer an issue when you never promise it in the first place. Be the highest value man possible and choose a virgin with traditional values; a relationship like that has the least likelihood of a woman being unfaithful. Only form relationships with barely attractive women; lol this isn't really a choice at all but if a man is too lazy to become the high value man then forming a relationship with a chick who meets the minimum requirements of the boner test is a man's best bet for monogamy. Any other choice a man makes is setting himself up for potential failure. The woman will put herself in a position to stray and if a charming enough dude shows up she'll end up cheating. They don't call the red pill a bitter pill for nothing. Knowing the truth is sobering and can be quite depressing but it doesn't have to be. Enjoy the present moment, don't dwell on things that are beyond control, accept the nature of women and don't have unrealistic expectations of them and that pill becomes a bit more tolerable.
