Expect your gf/fiance/wife to get hit on all the time......

[stuka1939]

unless she is obese or has a below average looking face.

Men who are bothered by this must ACCEPT this:

There are too many women co-workers of mine who are AVERAGE looking and they say they get hit on constantly.

One is in her late 30's, average face, kind of manly, but she has big boobs. She gets hit on all the time by all races.

Basically, I would not touch her with a 10 foot pole (just not my type) and she still has men drooling over her.

So, unless you are dating a Rosie O'Donnell or Janet Reno look alike, you have to DEAL with it.

 

[stuka1939]

Yup.
My girl gets hit on a lot and I've learned to deal with it. If you're the jealous/insecure type, god damn you're in for a ride. Just chill with it and learn to trust your girl. My girl has given me every reason to trust her and therefore I do.

By the way, what's the point of this thread?

Because I hear a few men on here complain "How to keep guys away from your girl" type thing.

Honestly though, is your g/f cute, hot or average?

 

[stuka1939]

Yup.
My girl gets hit on a lot and I've learned to deal with it. If you're the jealous/insecure type, god damn you're in for a ride. Just chill with it and learn to trust your girl. My girl has given me every reason to trust her and therefore I do.

By the way, what's the point of this thread?

Because I hear a few men on here complain "How to keep guys away from your girl" type thing.

Honestly though, is your g/f cute, hot or average?

 

[AFC Savior]

arent u just such a huge expert huh??? u had lotsa gf's that other guys hit on???

oh no no, thats right, you are Mahon, who was banned, and who has had sex with only 1 girl in his life at the ripe age of 25, YOU are definitely the expert on such topics huh???

or maybe you are all about theories, also known as an AFC

 

[Bible_Belt]

Yeah, it comes with the territory of dating attractive women. Even hb6-7 women will get hit on more than we do as guys.

The only thing that pisses me off is when they do it right in front of me. That is a huge sign of disrespect in my view. Gawking is fine. 'Hey baby you look good. What's your number?' is not fine. I actually had that happen at a gas station this week as a gf went inside and I was parked right outside the front door. The kid looked right at me before he hit on her, but I couldn't hear him because my windows were up.

 

[stuka1939]

Yeah, it comes with the territory of dating attractive women. Even hb6-7 women will get hit on more than we do as guys.

The only thing that pisses me off is when they do it right in front of me. That is a huge sign of disrespect in my view. Gawking is fine. 'Hey baby you look good. What's your number?' is not fine. I actually had that happen at a gas station this week as a gf went inside and I was parked right outside the front door. The kid looked right at me before he hit on her, but I couldn't hear him because my windows were up.

I could not agree more with the disrespectful thing.

I would never pull that in a bar/club because depending on how secure the guy is, you are liable to get knocked out!

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

arent u just such a huge expert huh??? u had lotsa gf's that other guys hit on???

oh no no, thats right, you are Mahon, who was banned, and who has had sex with only 1 girl in his life at the ripe age of 25, YOU are definitely the expert on such topics huh???

or maybe you are all about theories, also known as an AFC

I get the feeling that you have been banned before, too. Rightfully so.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Do guys ever realize that if you're a DJ, you'll be getting your own attention and will have to balance it with your GF so that she won't get jealous?

 

[lookyoung]

Do guys ever realize that if you're a DJ, you'll be getting your own attention and will have to balance it with your GF so that she won't get jealous?

Take out a 22 year old girl with a nice big tits and a great ass. She will be getting all the attention and not you. Its a part of life woman have always and will always get more attention than men. Woman always win the attention game from strangers.

Fransico how many times have you been coldapproached on the street?

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Take out a 22 year old girl with a nice big tits and a great ass. She will be getting all the attention and not you. Its a part of life woman have always and will always get more attention than men. Woman always win the attention game from strangers.

Fransico how many times have you been coldapproached on the street?

Of course this is going to happen. Forget about being a "DJ". I'm sick of hearing that term. As a man, you dominate the conversation. Meaning, when your girl gets hit on, you introduce yourself to the dude immediately. You show your ownership, so to speak. Whenever he says a sh1tty joke, you fake laugh and make it obvious. You let him know that you don't give a **** about him or whatever he has to say. Don't get me wrong, he might be a great guy, but your woman is on the line here.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Fransico how many times have you been coldapproached on the street?

Pretty frequently actually. During the spring, summer and fall when I'm on my bike it's quite often. Other times it's not in the street per se, it's in grocery or health food stores, Barnes and Noble, hell pretty much anywhere. I guess I just look approachable and enjoy having conversations. Why? How often are you approached?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Of course this is going to happen. Forget about being a "DJ". I'm sick of hearing that term. As a man, you dominate the conversation. Meaning, when your girl gets hit on, you introduce yourself to the dude immediately. You show your ownership, so to speak. Whenever he says a sh1tty joke, you fake laugh and make it obvious. You let him know that you don't give a **** about him or whatever he has to say. Don't get me wrong, he might be a great guy, but your woman is on the line here.

It's nice to see that guys can handle these types of situations. More times than not it happens regardless of the woman's age if you don't carry yourself as a person who commands respect. Sure, there will always be guys noticing the woman you're with but they notice you as being the guy she's with, at least when you allow your presence to be known. If you're out and you act as if your girl is single, what else would you expect to happen?

 

[lookyoung]

Pretty frequently actually. During the spring, summer and fall when I'm on my bike it's quite often. Other times it's not in the street per se, it's in grocery or health food stores, Barnes and Noble, hell pretty much anywhere. I guess I just look approachable and enjoy having conversations. Why? How often are you approached?

By woman on the street with the intention of picking me up seldom to never. I consider myself to be very good looking but woman are not hunters and I think very few guys get cold approached on the street. Other places like work,clubs,bars and parties with your friends do not count.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

By woman on the street with the intention of picking me up seldom to never. I consider myself to be very good looking but woman are not hunters and I think very few guys get cold approached on the street. Other places like work,clubs,bars and parties with your friends do not count.

What signals are you giving them?

 

[Trinitron]

I once hit on a guy who was hitting on my gf, when he worked out what was going on his facial expression was priceless. My gf was in hysterics.

 

[joekerr31]

Take out a 22 year old girl with a nice big tits and a great ass. She will be getting all the attention and not you. Its a part of life woman have always and will always get more attention than men. Woman always win the attention game from strangers.

Fransico how many times have you been coldapproached on the street?

is this true or is it rather that women get OBVIOUS attention.

i can tell you from the various women i've dated that many a times i've been out with my girl, interacted with some other chic just due to circumstances, walked away and thought nothing of it. only to have my girl tell me 'she was so flirting with you.'

the difference with men and women is that men scan the body and linger. we check out her face, t*ts, ass - then we turn away for a few seconds then check her out all over again and keep doing so. we are VERY obvious.

whereas women scan you very quickly. and will keep scanning you but they put a lot more effort into making it subtle.

i've always been shocked after i've hooked up with a woman and we talk about how we noticed each other. and she will say something like 'ya, i was so checking you out that night, i couldn't keep my eyes off you." and im like "what?! i never saw you look at me once!"

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...i've always been shocked after i've hooked up with a woman and we talk about how we noticed each other. and she will say something like 'ya, i was so checking you out that night, i couldn't keep my eyes off you." and im like "what?! i never saw you look at me once!"

THAT is EXACTLY what I get if I don't pay attention to the women around me or if I don't toss bait out to them. On a couple of occasions I've hooked up with women a good year after meeting them because they didn't get an obvious sign from me that they could approach with something more than just cordial friends.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I once hit on a guy who was hitting on my gf, when he worked out what was going on his facial expression was priceless. My gf was in hysterics.

That takes mad c/f, good job!

 

[lookyoung]

is this true or is it rather that women get OBVIOUS attention.

I agree with most of your post, however I don't agree with this part. An average looking girl will get approached more often than a guy that looks like a model. COLDAPPROACHED ON THE STREET.

Woman are weaker than us so they don't feel as safe on the street and it is not in there nature to be the aggressor. Woman are used to getting approached and are spoiled by us.

A man will walk into a starbucks with the sole purpose of gaming a woman, a woman will not. They are not wired that way.

 

[JLR]

i've always been shocked after i've hooked up with a woman and we talk about how we noticed each other. and she will say something like 'ya, i was so checking you out that night, i couldn't keep my eyes off you." and im like "what?! i never saw you look at me once!"

This has happened to me several times...makes me feel extremely unperceptive TBH... I guess I can be pretty dense; it sure as hell isn't any kind of inferiority thing.