Expanding your social circle to meet women

[Konada]

I've been using primarily OLD so far to meet women and I just feel that sane-level headed women which are far more enjoyable to be with are met through social circles. Problem is, I spent a good deal of my college years being a lone wolf and that has definitely impaired me in social circle game, moreover cold approaching here is frowned upon unless you're exceptionally good looking.

I currently do dance, work and workout. My only access to women in through latin ballroom but they're mostly taken or not attracted to me at all, much less I prefer not to sh!t where I eat unless the girl gives me glaring IOIs.

My problems are:

1. I'm in my 3rd year and most of those desirable girls are already taken up, what's left are your mediocre/mental girls.

2. I generally have problems attracting people to me, even when i feel there's a connection, I don't get introduced into their other social circles. (Am I not providing enough value?)

3. What should I be doing differently to make sure I can expand my social circle effectively and get to know more people?

 

[Von]

I've been using primarily OLD so far to meet women and I just feel that sane-level headed women which are far more enjoyable to be with are met through social circles. Problem is, I spent a good deal of my college years being a lone wolf and that has definitely impaired me in social circle game, moreover cold approaching here is frowned upon unless you're exceptionally good looking.

I currently do dance, work and workout. My only access to women in through latin ballroom but they're mostly taken or not attracted to me at all, much less I prefer not to sh!t where I eat unless the girl gives me glaring IOIs.

My problems are:

1. I'm in my 3rd year and most of those desirable girls are already taken up, what's left are your mediocre/mental girls.

2. I generally have problems attracting people to me, even when i feel there's a connection, I don't get introduced into their other social circles. (Am I not providing enough value?)

3. What should I be doing differently to make sure I can expand my social circle effectively and get to know more people?

Got same situation

Do voluntering, host parties, join your dance friends to clubs, join a board of governor of an organism.... same stuff has in school.... get some college to hang out with, gym start talking to the same people you always see, if you have a swimming pool with a bar where people hang out, chill there

 

[Roni_88]

Its not easy sometimes, something that is helping me right now is joining meetup with interests that I have, people join with the same purpose.