Yotsuya-san
Senior Don Juan
In most cases, neither do they.speakeasy said:Existentialism, like "string theory" is one of those things that no matter how many times people explain it to me, I have no idea what the f--- they are talking about.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
In most cases, neither do they.speakeasy said:Existentialism, like "string theory" is one of those things that no matter how many times people explain it to me, I have no idea what the f--- they are talking about.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This seems to be one of those cases.Yotsuya-san said:In most cases, neither do they.
hmm..if you're interested in philosophy i would take a look into buddhist philosophy...personally i find that buddhist philosophy is more realistic and explanatory in regards to life and existence...what abotu philosophy interests you....for example, how do we know we exist?Sojourn said:I still don't completely understand existentialism but I understand it more now than I did
I never thought I would be doing existentialism in an English composition class at a community college. I didn't want to know anything specifically. I was just trying to get a better overall understanding of existentialism. After taking the class I am more interested in philosophy. Philosophy is something I never thought I would be interested in, but I am glad I chose that professor because I found a fascinating subject I can learn about.
Does anyone know what books I should read to start learning more about philosophy? Any recommendations on where I should start?
well can you prove that it is even a chairSinJester said:Prove this chair does not exist.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The chair doesn't exist for anyone else here but yourself because you are just letters on a screen.SinJester said:Prove this chair does not exist.
Hey Karma, you might want to give his readings another glance. You are right though, it would be absurd to start reading Nietzsche with Thus spoke Zarathustra. However, I would like to note that Nietzsche is full of positivity. Ahh I love continental philosophy...KarmaSutra said:First off, anyone who says Nietzsche isn't more a nihilist than Existentialist hasn't read anything other than Thus spoke Zarathustra.
There is very little positivity in Nietzsche's work. He subscribed to the defeatist mentality where there are no confines outside of subscribed orthodox religion.
Using ourselves as a mirror of divinity is not what Nietzcshe was saying at all.