Exe's That Came Back After A Long Time, Your Story?

[soulforge]

So guys last night I am going through my emails, that I have not checked for a good few months.

In my inbox I find an email from an ex from way way back!

I'm talking about maybe 5 years ago or more.. At the time I was really into this chick, but it didn't workout between us, we dated for just over a year.

She just asked how I was, and would be good to maybe meet and catch up sometime.

She also sent a pic of herself? Seriously when I saw her pic, I felt NOTHING in fact she didn't even look attractive, and I questioned myself on why I even dated her lol...

So I decided not to bother, replying back.. She is old news now!

Have you guys had a similar experience? How many years down the line did she get back to you?

Never in a million years did I think I would hear from this one again.. Its amazing how they just roll back into your life!

 

[wifehunter]

This is why, it's better, getting to know someone over the long term. You can never be sure of you'd still be interested after a year.

Commonly, most marriages are people rushing things. Then when the novelty and newness wears off, they get buyers remorse. Then the odds of divorce goes up.

The long game wins in the end.

 

[Glassguy]

Good post @wifehunter

I agree about the buyers remorse. Thats why a test drive is important because a woman comes with no warranty or guarantees lol.

We live in a throw away society as well. If things arent going the way we want, we just throw things away and buy new ones. Fixing something nowadays is unheard of......and when you can buy it again so cheaply.....

OLD, attention wh0res getting what they want, etc etc has made relationships like the TV or microwave. Instead of taking some time to fix it, its easier to throw it away and shop for a new one. I mean why would anyone want to take 15 minutes and talk problems out when they can just ghost and go find a new partner in a week? Lol.

Its sad, but true.

 

[wifehunter]

Good post @wifehunter

I agree about the buyers remorse. Thats why a test drive is important because a woman comes with no warranty or guarantees lol.

We live in a throw away society as well. If things arent going the way we want, we just throw things away and buy new ones. Fixing something nowadays is unheard of......and when you can buy it again so cheaply.....

OLD, attention wh0res getting what they want, etc etc has made relationships like the TV or microwave. Instead of taking some time to fix it, its easier to throw it away and shop for a new one. I mean why would anyone want to take 15 minutes and talk problems out when they can just ghost and go find a new partner in a week? Lol.

Its sad, but true.

I understand completely.

However, I would not be interested in any woman who would allow herself to be 'test driven'.

Would you buy an abused test driven Lambo, or one new straight from the factory?

Success is about taking risks.

No risk, no success.

 

[Glassguy]

@wifehunter

It depends on the "used" condition and the price lol

 

[dude99]

So guys last night I am going through my emails, that I have not checked for a good few months.

In my inbox I find an email from an ex from way way back!

I'm talking about maybe 5 years ago or more.. At the time I was really into this chick, but it didn't workout between us, we dated for just over a year.

She just asked how I was, and would be good to maybe meet and catch up sometime.

She also sent a pic of herself? Seriously when I saw her pic, I felt NOTHING in fact she didn't even look attractive, and I questioned myself on why I even dated her lol...

So I decided not to bother, replying back.. She is old news now!

Have you guys had a similar experience? How many years down the line did she get back to you?

Never in a million years did I think I would hear from this one again.. Its amazing how they just roll back into your life!

It happens. Usually when a girl gets dumped, and they themselves werent branch swinging to the next guy her thoughts immediately go to "winning the break up." And that usually entails getting together with another dude before the one that dumped them gets someone new.

When they think like this they think backwards. Remembering something familiar. They stick their toe in the water.

I have had an ex do this every couple of years for the last 20 years, and you guessed it, every time is after she has been dumped.

Good for you for turning the other cheek. Good for you for moving forward and not looking back.

 

[soulforge]

It happens. Usually when a girl gets dumped, and they themselves werent branch swinging to the next guy her thoughts immediately go to "winning the break up." And that usually entails getting together with another dude before the one that dumped them gets someone new.

When they think like this they think backwards. Remembering something familiar. They stick their toe in the water.

I have had an ex do this every couple of years for the last 20 years, and you guessed it, every time is after she has been dumped.

Good for you for turning the other cheek. Good for you for moving forward and not looking back.

Dude99 that's exactly what I think has happened to her.. From what i remember of her, she was a pretty stubborn and proud woman...

For her to reach out like this, including a pic she sent, doesn't seem right.. My guess is, she has been truly screwed over by some dude, and then dumped her sorry ass..

It crazy how woman age.. The picture she sent me, looked like she had been dragged through a hedge fuking backwards!


I dread to think over the last 5 years, how many dudes have emptied there load in her.. No thanks man, i'll pass you by!

 

[byers90]

It hasn't happened to me yet but if I did I would smile and be nice to the person, have some chit-chat and probably keep it at that. No reason to be upset or glad that the person's life took a downturn or something....all that shows is you are very weak and small minded (All this time and said person is still able to get a reaction out of you.) People get together and sometimes it doesn't work out and they break up, that's life.

 

[amaterasu]

I understand completely.

However, I would not be interested in any woman who would allow herself to be 'test driven'.

Would you buy an abused test driven Lambo, or one new straight from the factory?

Success is about taking risks.

No risk, no success.

You are really a Wife Hunter.

You are aiming for the quality ones. That is what I like about you

I hope your hunt will be over soon

 

[Reykhel]

You are really a Wife Hunter.

You are aiming for the quality ones. That is what I like about you

I hope your hunt will be over soon

Agreed.

You've got to admire the man. He's sacrificed a sex life in order to wait for the "one".

Holding out for the unicorn takes discipline and a certain single mindedness.

Godspeed to the man

 

[amaterasu]

Agreed.

You've got to admire the man. He's sacrificed a sex life in order to wait for the "one".

Holding out for the unicorn takes discipline and a certain single mindedness.

Godspeed to the man

Alright!

If this is true, then it's a wow for me

 

[soulforge]

you need to be careful.

even red pill men still subscriibe to the idea of the "one"

despite being told repeatedly there is no "one"

searching for the ideal dream girl is just a repackaged version of "the one"

the ideal girl doesnt exist. there is only good ones and bad ones

there is no ONE

Agreed, but in this day and age, there isn't even a GOOD one.. There is just a tolerable one!

 

[Reykhel]

you need to be careful.

even red pill men still subscriibe to the idea of the "one"

despite being told repeatedly there is no "one"

searching for the ideal dream girl is just a repackaged version of "the one"

the ideal girl doesnt exist. there is only good ones and bad ones

there is no ONE

Reykhel was being facetious my good man.

Nonetheless, your input is greatly appreciated.