"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Exercising...while sitting?

BWSL2

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Every time I'm sitting in class, I think to myself, "Hmm, I wonder if there is something else I could get done while the windbag goes through her daily lecture? Maybe exercise?"

I know that some flex their abs or their butt while sitting. Does anyone know of anything I can do while sitting down, without getting anyone's attention while doing it? I'm not looking for a way out of going to the gym or anything. When I have to sit, I'd like to do something else while I'm at it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do some Kegels (you should be able to find info on the web). They'll improve your ejaculations. And if you're restless, you can always try to flex every muscle in your body individually, like start at the fingers and work your way up. It'll give you a better mind-muscle connection over time and might improve your isolation exercises in the gym.
 

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Originally posted by Soshyopathe
Careful, I would make fun of someone who i saw twitching and flexing in class.
You can do this without making obvious movements.

I'd be paying attention to the professor in class, but that's just me.
 

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Originally posted by BWSL2
Every time I'm sitting in class, I think to myself, "Hmm, I wonder if there is something else I could get done while the windbag goes through her daily lecture? Maybe exercise?"

I know that some flex their abs or their butt while sitting. Does anyone know of anything I can do while sitting down, without getting anyone's attention while doing it? I'm not looking for a way out of going to the gym or anything. When I have to sit, I'd like to do something else while I'm at it.
If you dont like lecture, dont go to class.are you in college or high school?

i suggest focusing on what the professor is saying...there is a time to work your body, and there is a time to work your mind.

Keep both in a steady equilibrium.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by bigforearms
You can do this without making obvious movements.

I'd be paying attention to the professor in class, but that's just me.
Apparently you've never seen someone doing this in class.
 
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