shagnscoob
Senior Don Juan
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theres this awesome girl, when i met her she had JUST broken up with a boyfriend of 1.5 years. eventually shes sleeping over at my place.
one night she specifically requested that i tell her whenever i kiss another girl, so i told her i would, i didnt specifically say anything like 'okay i promise to always tell you when i kiss other girls'
a month later i hooked up with another girl, who i shouldve known from the start wouldnt be able to keep hush. her and the girl used to be good friends, but they rarely speak anymore. at the time, the girl asked if she could tell her best friend, which is a 3rd girl now in the story and i said no one.
tonight i ran into the 2nd girl and the 3rd girl, the 2nd girl left, and i was left alone with the third. i cant turn my dj skills off, its getting bad. so i briefly kissed this girl too, despite my full efforts not to. now they both know, and they are both open about it. im feeling pretty screwed about now.
so to sum it up-->
-girl asked me to tell her when i kiss another girl, and i agree (but dont ask the same of her, and we arent in an exclusive relationship, she just asked to KNOW when)
-a few weeks later i kiss the girls old old old friend, who has a big mouth and i shouldve realized before i kissed her, and i ask her to keep it on the downlow
-2 weeks afterward (tonight) i try my hardest not to kiss that girl's friend, and shes literally on top of me trying to kiss me and i dodged it all pretty well. but now they are mad because i wouldnt kiss her, and they call asking why i want to keep it a secret.
-im worried because i dont want it to get back to the first girl. like, i really really dont because i enjoy being around this girl. i feel like if i came clean now i could come off as an alright guy, because i could admit what i did with 2nd girl, and how i tried to stop myself with 3rd out of respect for everyone, before it comes back to 1st girl and i look like a liar, but i risk her not wanting to see me anymore ANYWAY.
suggestions?
one night she specifically requested that i tell her whenever i kiss another girl, so i told her i would, i didnt specifically say anything like 'okay i promise to always tell you when i kiss other girls'
a month later i hooked up with another girl, who i shouldve known from the start wouldnt be able to keep hush. her and the girl used to be good friends, but they rarely speak anymore. at the time, the girl asked if she could tell her best friend, which is a 3rd girl now in the story and i said no one.
tonight i ran into the 2nd girl and the 3rd girl, the 2nd girl left, and i was left alone with the third. i cant turn my dj skills off, its getting bad. so i briefly kissed this girl too, despite my full efforts not to. now they both know, and they are both open about it. im feeling pretty screwed about now.
so to sum it up-->
-girl asked me to tell her when i kiss another girl, and i agree (but dont ask the same of her, and we arent in an exclusive relationship, she just asked to KNOW when)
-a few weeks later i kiss the girls old old old friend, who has a big mouth and i shouldve realized before i kissed her, and i ask her to keep it on the downlow
-2 weeks afterward (tonight) i try my hardest not to kiss that girl's friend, and shes literally on top of me trying to kiss me and i dodged it all pretty well. but now they are mad because i wouldnt kiss her, and they call asking why i want to keep it a secret.
-im worried because i dont want it to get back to the first girl. like, i really really dont because i enjoy being around this girl. i feel like if i came clean now i could come off as an alright guy, because i could admit what i did with 2nd girl, and how i tried to stop myself with 3rd out of respect for everyone, before it comes back to 1st girl and i look like a liar, but i risk her not wanting to see me anymore ANYWAY.
suggestions?
