Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This sounds like the same mumbo jumbo my friend who runs marathons spews at me. "You have to run for 30 minutes before you're even burning any fat." The science sounds all nice and official but in the end it misleads people somehow along the way.EFFORT said:Sprinting is not going to do it, sprinting works on your anaerobic energy systems (ATP-PC for the first seconds, then your switching to Glycogenesis, then anaerobic glycolysis all to generate you ATP without oxygen. You need to be aerobic (with oxygen) to burn fat, thats why we do low intensity for a long time, you become more aerobic and burn fat which yields more ATP than a glucose or glycogen molecule.
Maybe it burns less fat DURING the exercise (no idea)... but what things sound like is that you're more concerned with your body keep on burning up fat after you're done for a long time.HIIT
Quick definition: high intensity interval training. This is a hybrid version of both extremes of fat burning sessions and CV work. This is where short bursts of incredibly intense exercise are followed not by rest, but less intense exercise.
Examples: hill sprints and any CV work that is cycled in its intensity
More info: this method of training is incredibly effective and literally turns your body into a fat burning furnace. You get the respiratory benefits of very high intensity CV exercise and the fat burning benefits of lower intensity exercise. This shifts your metabolism into overdrive and, if you can handle it, is almost twice as effective as any other method. This effect is magnified further by adding an incline to your work (as running up a 10 degree gradient burns twice as many kcals/hour than on the flat). it is also worth noting that as you need muscle to sprint @ MHR, your body will be using anything but muscle to fuel itself, this is not the case with lower intensitty exersize.
http://www.fitsense.co.uk/fit_article.php?id=18
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.