"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Exercise and Diet for the Mind

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Exercise and Diet for the mind
Eating and exercising are staples of physical readiness and mobility. Eat the calorie…the right kind of calories and it will make you function better in more ways than I have time to list on this page.

But the concept of diet and exercise can also be applied to mental health as well. Think of reading and absorbing information much in the same way as you would eating. What kinds of foods are you eating? Are you eating too little, too much? Where does your food come from? Does the food you eat make you tired and lethargic or energetic and awake? Now interchange the words food with information and eating with absorbing.

Now think about critical thinking, problem solving, and creativity as exercise. Are you too bloated from your food to exercise? Do you need more energy from food to exercise? Are you too sedentary or not working out hard enough? Have you consciously sought to figure out what your information uptake/critical thinking ratio should be through experience?

Just as diet and exercise must be balanced, so must learning and creative thinking. Take in too much information and you won’t do anything with it much like the fat guy who won’t exercise. Thinking about everything with taking in new ideas and concepts and you will wear yourself out and not have energy to make good decisions.

Hope this helps, I got this concept from the 4 hour work week when he talks about a low information diet.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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