strong like bull
Senior Don Juan
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- Nov 5, 2002
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ive been dating this girl for 9 months now. i lost my virginity to her and she is the only girl ive had sex with. when i first met her, she was the "attention wh0re" type, being that she was single and didnt have anyone to love. i made her understand the type of girl im looking for and the type of girl i want to share my life with. that happens to be the loyal, trustworthy, compassionate, feminine, nurting home-body type. not the flirt who hangs out at bars every night. the more she became attracted to me, the more the AW tendencies disappeared and the more she became that sweet girl. she gave up the bars and clubs.. hardly ever goes out. she also told her little fanclub of guy friends to take a hike.
what i have now is a girl who is loyal, cooks for me, cleans, buys me whatever id ask for, sets up romantic occasions (the candles and rose pedal type), is very giving and compassionate... and it goes on. i work 50+ hrs a week and shes the type of girl who will be at home, waiting for me to get off work, so she can feed me, draw me a bath, rub me down and relax from the day and make love with me. she is proving herself to me worthy of the perfect "traditional" girlfriend; the kind of girl i want, longterm.
but theres a problem.
for 6+ months i told her lets not be "exclusive" by agreement, but if neither of us are seeing anyone else, thats cool too. so a while back, she was devoting herself completely to me, and being a great woman... i fooled around with another girl and she found out. actually, i told her about it because i wanted to be upfront. even tho we WERE NOT exclusive, of course it broke her heart.
she was emotionally screwed for a couple days. she told me how she couldnt really trust me and that the thought of me being with another woman would always be in the back of her mind.
this is where i may have fvcked up.
i realized that the other girl meant nothing to me in comparison, because i care about my gf very much. so to calm her down, i reassured her that she was the only girl i was interested in dating. as happy as she made me, no one else would need to be in the picture. except for the one girl i fooled around with, i hadnt been seeing anyone else anyways. i was hanging out with my gf 4+ times a week (yeah, against the "rules", i know) and both of us loved every minute of it. couldnt get enough of eachother.
that mightve been a mistake.
lately ive been very tempted to see other girls. having only had sex with her, lately ive been very curious about what else is out there. she is a wonderful girl, but i have to be honest about the curiousity. a couple weeks back i got a job bouncing at the busiest bar on my side of town... and that does not help at all. so now ive got that original bit of curiousity, compounded by the fact that ive got at least five smokin' hot girls a night ready to fvck me senseless.
ive been thinking about this a lot lately, but could use some outside perspectives. any help would be great.
thanks,
SLB
what i have now is a girl who is loyal, cooks for me, cleans, buys me whatever id ask for, sets up romantic occasions (the candles and rose pedal type), is very giving and compassionate... and it goes on. i work 50+ hrs a week and shes the type of girl who will be at home, waiting for me to get off work, so she can feed me, draw me a bath, rub me down and relax from the day and make love with me. she is proving herself to me worthy of the perfect "traditional" girlfriend; the kind of girl i want, longterm.
but theres a problem.
for 6+ months i told her lets not be "exclusive" by agreement, but if neither of us are seeing anyone else, thats cool too. so a while back, she was devoting herself completely to me, and being a great woman... i fooled around with another girl and she found out. actually, i told her about it because i wanted to be upfront. even tho we WERE NOT exclusive, of course it broke her heart.
she was emotionally screwed for a couple days. she told me how she couldnt really trust me and that the thought of me being with another woman would always be in the back of her mind.
this is where i may have fvcked up.
i realized that the other girl meant nothing to me in comparison, because i care about my gf very much. so to calm her down, i reassured her that she was the only girl i was interested in dating. as happy as she made me, no one else would need to be in the picture. except for the one girl i fooled around with, i hadnt been seeing anyone else anyways. i was hanging out with my gf 4+ times a week (yeah, against the "rules", i know) and both of us loved every minute of it. couldnt get enough of eachother.
that mightve been a mistake.
lately ive been very tempted to see other girls. having only had sex with her, lately ive been very curious about what else is out there. she is a wonderful girl, but i have to be honest about the curiousity. a couple weeks back i got a job bouncing at the busiest bar on my side of town... and that does not help at all. so now ive got that original bit of curiousity, compounded by the fact that ive got at least five smokin' hot girls a night ready to fvck me senseless.
ive been thinking about this a lot lately, but could use some outside perspectives. any help would be great.
thanks,
SLB
