"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Exciting and interesting things to do on dates/hangouts

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So, I've come to realize that I need things to do with girls once I hang out with them! I remember there being tons of lists of things to do, but I just did a search and couldn't find them.

The reason that this has come to me is because I just realized that the girl I'm seeing gets bored with me... all we've really done is go to my house and watch movies while romping around on my bed. We've barely went out, you know? now my jackass friend who lurks me and my other friend's myspace got this girl to agree to hang out with him at the park, where she gets to learn how to skate. her interest level in me has gone down quite a bit since she started talking to him.

I'm looking for suggestions on things to do. i'm only 17 so I can't really go to bars/clubs with her yet.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BeyondCharm said:
This has been asked a million times. Use search.
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Read my first paragraph, second sentence. Again.
 
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No not action dates you want seduction dates, something simple with lots of talking and tonnes of time to get close and touchy :) (can involve action :) )
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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