"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Exciting and interesting things to do on dates/hangouts

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So, I've come to realize that I need things to do with girls once I hang out with them! I remember there being tons of lists of things to do, but I just did a search and couldn't find them.

The reason that this has come to me is because I just realized that the girl I'm seeing gets bored with me... all we've really done is go to my house and watch movies while romping around on my bed. We've barely went out, you know? now my jackass friend who lurks me and my other friend's myspace got this girl to agree to hang out with him at the park, where she gets to learn how to skate. her interest level in me has gone down quite a bit since she started talking to him.

I'm looking for suggestions on things to do. i'm only 17 so I can't really go to bars/clubs with her yet.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BeyondCharm said:
This has been asked a million times. Use search.
Read my first paragraph, second sentence. Again.
 

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No not action dates you want seduction dates, something simple with lots of talking and tonnes of time to get close and touchy :) (can involve action :) )
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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