"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don Juan
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Sup guys,

I just turned 20 years old and got out of a horrible relationship that i created. David DeAngelos material had gotten me great success before then. I experienced a chance to date very very attractive chicks. I came into it when i was about 16 and practiced until i was about to turn 18.

I found one that i really liked and ended up turning into the wuss. Sucks right.

So a few weeks ago i decided to get back the amazing skills i had back then and attempt to go beyond what i have accomplished before. I've read some posts on this website and it gives some profound advice from some amazing guys. I'm glad to be here and justed wanted to say sup, i'll be here to still you guys ideas ;) but also give some of my own in the following months.

Ahhhhhhhhhh.... its good to be back.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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