“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Excitation Transfer

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This is an actual psychological phenomenon that has been researched and experimented with and good for everyday practical affairs in the realm of dating/seduction.

Emotions consist of two factors: the physiological state, and the "label" attached to the physiological state. There exists a famous experiment where a researcher injected subjects with adrenalin and sent them to a room where there was either a happy, giddy person trying to get them to play along, or a sad, gloomy person trying to bring the subject down. The result? Although the physiological state provided by the adrenalin was exactly the same, the reported emotion by the subject was dependent on whether or not he was in the company of a happy or sad person. In other words, if the subject was in the "happy" condition, he reported feelings of happiness. Likewise, the person in the "sad" condition reported feelings of sadness.

So, how does this apply to women? Well, ever been totally infatuated with some girl? What happens physiologically to your body? Your heart races, you breathe heavily, you may sweat, etc. This state of arousal is extremely similar to when we are in a state of FEAR. Yet, we attribute these feelings depending on our surrounding stimuli.

Ok, so the point of all this is, "excitation transfer" works when you take your date somewhere where this state can be induced i.e. an amusement park (roller coasters), a scary movie, challenging outdoor activities etc. The physiological state you induce works in a way that her mind unconsciouslly will attribute this state as being caused by her attraction to you (when it is actually fear and excitement that is causing her state).

Many research dealing with attraction due to environmental stimuli have been done and all have unanimously backed this hypothesis. So, keep it in mind when planning a date...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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so if you act nervous then it wil transfer to her?

i dont get it
 
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Take her hill-walking and she'll get out of breath, excited, breathing heavy. With you being around her, she'll associate that with you, and think it's symptoms of attraction.

Or something like that. :)
 
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