"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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excitable?

Jeremymichael

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Hello everyone,

There is a girl who I talk to everynow and again in the pub. Last night she came up to me whilst I was talking to a friend and said I was the most excitable man in the bar and went to onto say I was very friendly. I kind of felt embassased, and I as I sit here today I'm wondering what she means?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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Member since 2001 and you can't figure out the next move from what she said to you?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

There are a few BILLION pages of articles, as well as the DJB that should have been read before you even posted this thread. I and many other guys on here could go through the countless things what this means, what your next move should have been, and on and on.

But for bejeezus sake...You've been on SS for 7 years and can't figure it out?!

I'm not tryin to flame..but bejeezus man!!! That chick should be sitting on your face right now!!!!!!!!!
 

Jeremymichael

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Good point Hypnotq. The problem I see though, she has many male admirers. She always seems to be around blokes. I mean what irrates me is that you have no idea whether she is already in a relationship. I was in the bar last night and there was some new bloke with her, bit of cuddling,kissing etc. I did her her say something about taking it slow and getting know someone first.

Also she started being really nice with this older bloke, around 55 (who has a dog with him) and she was just being friendly and he misconstrued it as being interested and he asked her out on a date. She made some kind of excuse about being busy. Because she is nice with everyone, it make me less valuing her opinions of me because I think she has a poor judgement on other people, if that makes sense?. To be honest some of these other blokes come across as arrogant idiots!
 
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