Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Excess sets or just right?

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What is the point of 4 sets vs. 3?
Is that 4th set really worth it, or can you accomplish in 3 what you can in 4?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thats a really broad question man, wanna give us some context?
 

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i usually like to do 5 sets...Is that excessive or something?
 

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insidious said:
What is the point of 4 sets vs. 3?
Is that 4th set really worth it, or can you accomplish in 3 what you can in 4?
Sets & Reps
Sets x reps = volume
Volume stresses your body, forcing it to adapt (GROW)


How much volume do you need to stress your body so it grows?
Beginners can't handle volume well, therefore start low:
-bodybuilding: 3 sets of 8
-strength/mass: 5 sets of 5
Both equal ~25 reps.


Next
The more you advance, the more volume you can take. Where a beginner will have heavy soreness from squatting 3times a week, advanced trainees can handle daily squat sessions without feeling much soreness.
 

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I did read an actual scientific study that compared number of sets to results in strength and mass.
They tried 1 to 6 sets.
The magic number was four sets per exercise for optimum strength and mass.
No joke.
I wish I could scan the article. But I feel comfortable at four sets.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Interceptor said:
I did read an actual scientific study that compared number of sets to results in strength and mass.
They tried 1 to 6 sets.
The magic number was four sets per exercise for optimum strength and mass.
No joke.
I wish I could scan the article. But I feel comfortable at four sets.
Your body adapts to stress. Stress = reps * sets * weights. When it adapts, you'll need more stress to progress.

That's why olympic weightlifters do 7 workouts a week with two sessions a day.
 
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