"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Excess of vitamins?

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I'm taking a multi vitamin that has at least 100% in almost everything it gives you.

I looked up vitamin d. It has 250% in the multivitamin, but i also take a vitamin d/calcium (50% each), and it's still safe.

Is there anything to worry about? I'm still gonna eat veggies so I'm wondering if I'll get too much.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Too many vitamins can be a bad thing. But those are just suggested daily values. If you're a big guy you can handle more, if you're small, less.
 

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Assuming you eat red meat there's no need for your multivitamin to contain iron, especially 100% of the DV. Iron can act as a great oxidant.

Problems with your multivitamin:

- the zinc, magnesium, copper etc. are all in oxide forms that don't absorb for crap
- the vitamin E is the cheap dl- form which doesn't work as well as just the d- form
- the B vitamins are low considering how cheaply they can be made

If you want details on a better choice just PM me.

You should eat as many fibrous and colourful vegetables, and some fruit, as you can. Don't rely on a multivitamin.
 

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simon said:
- the B vitamins are low considering how cheaply they can be made

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I'm not sure if B vitamins matter so much. All I do is p1ss neon yellow if i take a vitamin high in the B vitamins. If you eat eggs and meat you're probably getting plenty of Bs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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simon said:
Assuming you eat red meat there's no need for your multivitamin to contain iron, especially 100% of the DV. Iron can act as a great oxidant.

Problems with your multivitamin:

- the zinc, magnesium, copper etc. are all in oxide forms that don't absorb for crap
- the vitamin E is the cheap dl- form which doesn't work as well as just the d- form
- the B vitamins are low considering how cheaply they can be made

If you want details on a better choice just PM me.

You should eat as many fibrous and colourful vegetables, and some fruit, as you can. Don't rely on a multivitamin.
I never eat any red meat. So what's wrong with the iron?

Thanks for detailing the problems.
 

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im just worried about having excess of vitamins with that multivitamin and the calcium/vitamin d, and everything else i eat in the day.
 

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You're getting 150% of your DV of iron from supplements, which is probably the most easily absorbed form of iron. Ontop of that you have the iron from the other food you're eating during the day. You simply don't need that much iron. You realise you're taking a multivitamin for women which is higher in iron because of that thing that happens to them every month where they bleed from a hole?

Don't worry about overdosing on Vitamin D with that multi. Worry about not getting enough magnesium and selenium from it.
 

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Multivitamins tend to be fine, but I avoid supplementing anything fat soluable, especially Vitamin D. I took a Vit. D supplement one night before the gym and almost fainted on the way there (no joke).
 

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simon said:
You're getting 150% of your DV of iron from supplements, which is probably the most easily absorbed form of iron. Ontop of that you have the iron from the other food you're eating during the day. You simply don't need that much iron. You realise you're taking a multivitamin for women which is higher in iron because of that thing that happens to them every month where they bleed from a hole?

Don't worry about overdosing on Vitamin D with that multi. Worry about not getting enough magnesium and selenium from it.
Yea because I thought I would need the iron.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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