"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Excess of vitamins?

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I'm taking a multi vitamin that has at least 100% in almost everything it gives you.

I looked up vitamin d. It has 250% in the multivitamin, but i also take a vitamin d/calcium (50% each), and it's still safe.

Is there anything to worry about? I'm still gonna eat veggies so I'm wondering if I'll get too much.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Too many vitamins can be a bad thing. But those are just suggested daily values. If you're a big guy you can handle more, if you're small, less.
 

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Assuming you eat red meat there's no need for your multivitamin to contain iron, especially 100% of the DV. Iron can act as a great oxidant.

Problems with your multivitamin:

- the zinc, magnesium, copper etc. are all in oxide forms that don't absorb for crap
- the vitamin E is the cheap dl- form which doesn't work as well as just the d- form
- the B vitamins are low considering how cheaply they can be made

If you want details on a better choice just PM me.

You should eat as many fibrous and colourful vegetables, and some fruit, as you can. Don't rely on a multivitamin.
 

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simon said:
- the B vitamins are low considering how cheaply they can be made

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I'm not sure if B vitamins matter so much. All I do is p1ss neon yellow if i take a vitamin high in the B vitamins. If you eat eggs and meat you're probably getting plenty of Bs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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simon said:
Assuming you eat red meat there's no need for your multivitamin to contain iron, especially 100% of the DV. Iron can act as a great oxidant.

Problems with your multivitamin:

- the zinc, magnesium, copper etc. are all in oxide forms that don't absorb for crap
- the vitamin E is the cheap dl- form which doesn't work as well as just the d- form
- the B vitamins are low considering how cheaply they can be made

If you want details on a better choice just PM me.

You should eat as many fibrous and colourful vegetables, and some fruit, as you can. Don't rely on a multivitamin.
I never eat any red meat. So what's wrong with the iron?

Thanks for detailing the problems.
 

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im just worried about having excess of vitamins with that multivitamin and the calcium/vitamin d, and everything else i eat in the day.
 

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You're getting 150% of your DV of iron from supplements, which is probably the most easily absorbed form of iron. Ontop of that you have the iron from the other food you're eating during the day. You simply don't need that much iron. You realise you're taking a multivitamin for women which is higher in iron because of that thing that happens to them every month where they bleed from a hole?

Don't worry about overdosing on Vitamin D with that multi. Worry about not getting enough magnesium and selenium from it.
 

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Multivitamins tend to be fine, but I avoid supplementing anything fat soluable, especially Vitamin D. I took a Vit. D supplement one night before the gym and almost fainted on the way there (no joke).
 

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simon said:
You're getting 150% of your DV of iron from supplements, which is probably the most easily absorbed form of iron. Ontop of that you have the iron from the other food you're eating during the day. You simply don't need that much iron. You realise you're taking a multivitamin for women which is higher in iron because of that thing that happens to them every month where they bleed from a hole?

Don't worry about overdosing on Vitamin D with that multi. Worry about not getting enough magnesium and selenium from it.
Yea because I thought I would need the iron.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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