"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Excellent book for guys who want to stop being "Nice Guys"

Raven80

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I'm currently reading the book No More Mr. Nice Guy, almost at the end and I can't believe how much change of perspective I am having from reading this great book. If you're a nice guy, then get reading now!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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GDrake

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I recently ran across that book too. I've ordered it and look forward to reading it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

trent81

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Is there a book for "How to be less of an assholve so that you don't turn off women? I need that one......
 

sodbuster

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Short version-we were raised to be nice to women-mom,teachers etc-all women. Except they wanted a nice obedient boy to work with-women dating want a man who knows what he wants.

If you are a "nice guy" hoping being nice will get you laid, you aren't really a nice guy. You are a guy with a hidden agenda.

Forgot alot of it,decent read though. I've recommended it in the past on this site.
 

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wow. Yea I read this like 1-2 months ago. I HIGHLY recommend it. It goes really deep in the reasons why we are nice and shows steps to get out of it
 
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