"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Excellent Article that will Answer a lot of Questions

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I've been browsing the net looking for some fresh reading material because I think the manosphere has gotten a little stale and one dimensional and found this.

http://newdarktriad.com/2014/10/07/fear/

Looks like a brand new men's advice blog that is going to cover a more wide range of topics but I really liked this article because I think it'll answer a lot of the newbie questions like "She hasn't answered my text in 40 minutes. What to do!?" Just thought I'd share with you guys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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One area that I may have disagreements with the author is the idea that fear is worse than jealousy. Internally fear can reduce a man to nothingness, but theoretically you could argue that the more collateral damage the more dangerous the emotion. And we all know what kind of jealousy a BPD can inflict on a man. I believe half these mass shootings come from men who've failed with women. Interesting topic though.
 

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Bump. I just read this and it's great stuff
 

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Did anyone get a chance to read the article "The Defeated Man" on the blog? The author talks about the effect of a corporate job on your spirit and manhood. Not a pretty picture but a Very riveting read. These guys have a lot of potential. I just subbed to their email list.
 
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