Examples of "tension"

[Reykhel]

this is a response to another thread where a guy is asking about flirting.........

For me, one of the magic ingredients with the opposite sex is creating tension......

We already know, if you appeal to a woman's logic, there's a good chance that you'll be rejected on a logical level ....she thinks....."eh go home to your bedsit.....I don't think so", but on the other hand when we engage her emotions she'll probably make, as they do, an emotional decision and then "rationalize" that emotional decision (in other words, she thinks she is thinking logically) "oh I don't normally do this........but.....it feels like I should"

So obviously when you're talking to her about Chinese foreign policy you are engaging her logical mind.......dry panties.......or maybe she will fvck you after 10 dates and lots of wine because "logically you seem like a good provider"

But when you engage her emotionally, she'll rationalize as to why she fvcked you after the first date.........

We know this. A lot of newbies don't..............this thread is meant as a "workshop" as such, in that we can provide examples from your life or from movie clips or whatever of the ability to create tension......
We all know the famous example from good fellas.....

Of course other ways to create a little bit of tension...........and again to remind......creating tension....engages the emotions..........tension can bring anticipation..........a girl who feels anticipation because of you is a girl who is salivating at the bit for you..........believe me they are addicted to it.........the lovable rogue.......the lovable prick...........a charming guy but with that little bit of bad boy charge............you see......anticipation in blue pill language is "butterflies in the stomach"........

You create tension and you create "butterflies in the stomach"..........you create butterflies in the stomach and you have a girl who within two months in "head over heals in love with you"

All of her friends say you are bad for her......but you have "something" she doesn't know what it is.........she knows deep down you are a bit of a "prick" only because you don't fawn all over her, but she can't resist you.........oh my god.....for the first time in a long time she feels "chemistry."

and you are no fool.......you tell her when you see the spell she is under......"I feel we have this connection.....it's weird..." and she will say "I Know!!!! Right????"

Baby's hooked......

and all because you put tension into the mix from day one..........
examples of creating tension.....
don't call her back straight away....
don't jump to answer her texts.........you know what it's like to be left waiting...
You be the one to end the date......you be the one to end the conversation......you be the one to tell her she needs to go you have ****e to do...
Don't answer her questions directly.........this is an oldy but goodie.........a lot of people can't do this.....if you've never done this...I implore you to do it with one chick as an experiment......watch her go crazy when you don't answer her....
answer her with a sarcastic answer.......
The old classic........frame her as your braty, silly little kid sister......in other words everything she does is ridiculous or silly..........

Do you have good examples from your life or from movies?

 

[Reykhel]

If you have a spare 27 minutes.......watch this short movie called Six Shooter

The young lead is the definition of sarcasm and taking the piss.....

An example of creating tension in the movie by answering a little sarcastically to a normal question.....
he's on a train and another passenger enters and asks if anybody is sitting in the seat across
from the young lad, a seat with is clearly not occupied....
Old guy "excuse me, is anyone sitting there"
young guy "oh yeah, there's hundreds of them there, like"
Old guy getting frustrated "It was only a simple question"
Young guy still taking the piss "ay it's those hard ones that get me"

an every day exchange that could go normally boring or with a bit of twist...........

 

[guru1000]

Everything that I have done in my "Be Overt and Relentless" thread that would seem counterintuitive embraces this tension element:

1) Double booking dates at the same time, non-apologetically and shamelessly. If you have balls end one date in front of the other;

2) Interrupting the convo with a blank stare. When she says what, look into her eyes and say, "I want to fuk you";

3) Having a normal convo and seemly out of nowhere take her hand and leave it on your calzone, and then continue talking like nothing happened. If you have balls, do this and start a friendly massage;

4) Asking her if she has any friends that she can hook you up with while massaging her leg;

5) Inviting her to another venue, mid-date. Get her acceptance. Then say, " never mind. My gf will be there." Continue the convo as nothing happened.

I'm going to continue my over-the-top thread in a few weeks. I'll create a few more tension-tactics. As counter-intuitive as the above sounds, they ALL have worked for me at about a 90+%, greater than had I done nothing.

 

[Reykhel]

Everything that I have done in my "Be Overt and Relentless" thread that would seem counterintuitive embraces this tension element:

1) Double booking dates at the same time, non-apologetically and shamelessly. If you have balls end one date in front of the other;

2) Interrupting the convo with a blank stare. When she says what, look into her eyes and say, "I want to fuk you";

3) Having a normal convo and seemly out of nowhere take her hand and leave it on your calzone, and then continue talking like nothing happened. If you have balls, do this and start a friendly massage;

4) Asking her if she has any friends that she can hook you up with while massaging her leg;

5) Inviting her to another place, mid-date. Get her acceptance. Then say, " never mind. My gf will be there." Continue the convo as nothing happened.

I'm going to continue my over-the-top thread in a few weeks. I'll create a few more tension-tactics. As counter-intuitive as the above sounds, they ALL have worked for me at about a 90+%, greater than had I done nothing.

The key phrase in your post for me is "counterintuitive"

It's exactly that. Doing something that would seem almost to go against the grain......but I've got to add to that the important factor, as you already know, is pure self amusement.........

....If we always remain in the correct frame of mind that everything is for our self amusement, everything is for our pleasure.......well the good ****e just follows like you said 90% of the time as a by product.......

I'm looking forward to more FR from the @guru1000 with your double booking those dates........actually I wish everyone here would try it at least once and FR it........

To do it, you must have the abundance mentality.....

The thing is, it's a classic sales tactic.........

I always say, if you want to sell your car for the price you want, if you want to sell your house or whatever.......double or triple book the viewings........

......and watch the power of the scarcity principle go to work........

 

[MrWood]

real email from a woman I know... sums it up how in the same situation, they think emotionally, not logically.

When I follow my feelings - everything is easy and clear
But when I start thinking ...I understand that everything is not so easy

 

[Alvafe]

The key phrase in your post for me is "counterintuitive"

It's exactly that. Doing something that would seem almost to go against the grain......but I've got to add to that the important factor, as you already know, is pure self amusement.........

....If we always remain in the correct frame of mind that everything is for our self amusement, everything is for our pleasure.......well the good ****e just follows like you said 90% of the time as a by product.......

I'm looking forward to more FR from the @guru1000 with your double booking those dates........actually I wish everyone here would try it at least once and FR it........

To do it, you must have the abundance mentality.....

The thing is, it's a classic sales tactic.........

I always say, if you want to sell your car for the price you want, if you want to sell your house or whatever.......double or triple book the viewings........

......and watch the power of the scarcity principle go to work........

I did that once, it was kinda strange, was feeling good after but don't know if I would do it again I spend the whole sunday out and that is really tiresome for me,

to make long story short, afternoon was with friends, had lunch and I decide to ask a gril from the group if she would want to go to a certain place that later at night, but before that had made plans with another girl so in more or less 2 hours I go out with this woman have sex, says i'm in a rush and need to leave, home,bath, msg the new girl asking her to tell me when she is ready 10 min later I was taking her and going to that other place.

@MrWood

if you start thinking is because you are caring more then you should, and that moment is when you are losing.

I know everyonce in a while that happens to me and its what really drives me crazy -.- becasue I know aht i'm doing will not be well but if I don't try I will be even more angry for not trying at least

 

[MrWood]

that is FROM a girl to me, shows how they think... confirmed!

her emotions make sense to her. logic does not, in the same situation...