"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Examples of "Teasing"?

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Heheh, well I never really understood what is meant by "teasing" a girl, but I'm sure its great fun to do. Any DJ's kind enough to explain and give a few examples? THANKS
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mock her, make fun of her. How can you not understand teasing. You know what you did when you were a little kid and would tell the girl that you really really liked that she was ugly and then would run away when she tried to kiss you, even though you secretly wanted to be kissed. Thats teasing,

There are two ways of teasing

Teasing by not giving her something: ie she wants to kiss you, hover your lips above hers, breathing into her mouth but moving away every time she tries to kiss you.

Teasing her by being rude to her: not to make her cry, but to make her laugh. Say patently untrue things about her to her. Not being rude

Search ****y and Funny for examples
 
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just say stuff like "I heard what you did" although she didn't do anything. She'll be like what?" you be like "Man thats messed up" "You be weird" "I saw what you were doing over there that one day"

or "Man you really try hard to look better than me don't youse?"

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Sometimes you just have to use whats happening in the moment. You can tease her about her hair, an article of clothing, something that happened to her, anything basically. Like a few weeks ago my gf got her toung periced, so everytime she came in for a kiss I would intentionally touch her lips with the tip of my toung knowing that she couldn't use her toung for a while because of the peircing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ya, a girl at my school wore solid pink and i said," man, i could realy go for some cotton candy. lauren, gat your a*s over here." it was great.
 
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