"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Examples of HB10's in the media
- Thread starter lebRambo
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
1 - road kill = burn victim
2 - retarded = retard at mcdonalds
3 - ugly face, ugly body = 300lb beast
4 - ugly face, average body = butterface
5 - average face, average body = your average "outdoorsey" girl
6 - cute face, average body = the next door girl
7, cute face, hot body = the typical waitress, club girl, etc.
8, hot face, hot body = random hollywood biatch.
I don't understand why people qualify some girls as 9s-10s even if the girl is all loose and party animal type. You people qualify by looks and not what is inside, idiots.
9, hot face, hot body, wife qualities = random hollywood biatch but is loyal to her man.
10, hot face, hot body, wife qualities, and rich. = random hollywood biatch loyal with her man, and has a non-art degree, invests, or has a business.
And here are some negative qualifying points.. which mean negative 1-2 points if she has any of the problem:
-1 = if she has had a drug, alcohol or a concurrent drug, alcohol problem.
-1 = if she has had plastic surgery besides a breast job.
-1 to 2 = if she has a currently or has had a mental problem.
-1 = if she has been involved with any public pornographic imagery or has a reputation as a w hore.
Example: Angelina Jolie who would qualify as a 7 in my books because she has a mental problem and seems like a w hore she would be a 4.
Another example: Paris Hilton who would qualify as a 6 in my books, but because she's been in porn, plastic surgery, and a mental problem she'd be a 3-4 which is the equivalent of a 300lb beast or butterface.
For guys looking for compatbility in a girl, you rate yourself based on my same scale and then go for girls that are at the same level or 1 notch higher, don't go below your attraction scale, people judge your appearance with the girl.
If you're a 5, you should go for a 5,6 girl. If you're a 7, you should go for 7,8 girl. If you're a 8, you should go for 8-10s. What I say about "hot face" means the face matches universally accepted attractive masculine/feminine facial structure.
According to my scale, Tara Reid seems more like a 6 but I hear stories about her so she could be a 5.
ok, i'll be clearer, i was trying to make you understand that looks are subjective and you can't laugh at me because i say that tara reid is beautifulOriginally posted by Fatality
I wouldn't care plus I don't think any girl in the world is a 10.
okOriginally posted by Jay-X
ok, i'll be clearer, i was trying to make you understand that looks are subjective and you can't laugh at me because i say that tara reid is beautiful
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Nahh, she obviously had a b00b job, so that's a point off right there. Look at the scar around her nipple.Originally posted by Jay-X
10: tara reid, i didn't know her name, so i looked for it online and look what i found:
http://www.big-boys.com/articles/reidslip.html
this is what i define "a dream"
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.