Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Examples of HB10's in the media

lebRambo

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hey guys.

Just to clear up all this HB ranking business, I suggest we post pictures of celebrities, etc., with their ranking to see if we can find someone whom most of us agree is a HB10. Then we have some sort of benchmark to judge against. any suggestions of whom?

i suggest eva longoria:



anyone think eva is NOT a HB10?

anyone think this thread is a stupid idea? if so, please delete it mods. It was just an idea I had.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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here's my scale:

6s: they are the ones that look unworthy of your attention when you first meet them, but they become decent to your eyes after sometime you get to know them

6,5s: the same, but they look average when you first meet them

7s: they look decent when you first see them and you wouldn't mind at all banging them

7,5s: it's when i can start to think about a relationship. they look pretty.

8s: they look very good when you first meet them and usually are the nice and innocent girls.

8,5s: the same, but they usually are party girls.

9s: they are the very good looking girls.

9,5: extremely good looking.

10: tara reid, i didn't know her name, so i looked for it online and look what i found:

http://www.big-boys.com/articles/reidslip.html


this is what i define "a dream"
 

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Eva Longoria is definitely an HB10. Christina Milian not so much because I've seen many girls who look like her.

I think rarity is what creates an HB10. If she captures a type of beauty that is unmatched, then she's an HB10.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think its all subjective. I would give someone like Tara Reid a 9 because I like blondes, but she is too short for a 10. Someone like Eva Longoria, maybe a 8.5. Someone like Paris Hilton (looks wise, anyway), scores a 10 for me because I like my women tall, thin, and blonde. The guy who likes a J-Lo type girl may find her ugly.
 

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Originally posted by HereToImprove
Someone like Paris Hilton (looks wise, anyway), scores a 10 for me because I like my women tall, thin, and blonde. The guy who likes a J-Lo type girl may find her ugly.
This is a perfect example of how there can be no universal rating system. I consider Paris Hilton to be no more than a 6 at her very best.
 

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I'm in favour of the bell curve system and thats what I use.

I consider 5s and under undoable under any circumstances. To me, there is no difference between a 1 and a 4. The answer is: NO, even if I'm drunk.

6s might be acceptable if drunk. Girls who would otherwise be 7s but are overweight would go here too.

7s tend to be pretty, but not particulary sexy. They're your standard good looking girl.

8s are like 7s but sexier. Often a seductive smile or fine brunette hair (oh yea...) can make a 7 an 8 to me.

9s are significantly hotter than 8s.

I don't think that 10s exist.

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Christina Millian is a 9 - but I haven't seen any of her videos for a while. When You Look At Me - is that what its called - she looks hot there. Wow. Shes the best looking celebrity I can think of off the top of my head.
 

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6: Paris Hilton, Brandy, Lucy Liu, Christina Ricci
7: Uma Thurman, Courtney Cox, Sandra Bullock, Beyonce
8: Zhang Zi Yi, Eva Mendez, Jessica Alba, Helle Berry, Scarlet Johansson, Carmen Electra
9: Angelina Jolie, Charlize Theron, Kelly Hu (in X-Men), Adriana Lima (the pouty Victoria Secret Model)
10: Monica Bellucci :cheer:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fatality

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10's don't exist

nobody is perfect

how some of you guys can say the women you mentioned are perfect without seeing them completely naked I'll never know

Tara Reid a 10 ROFLMAO:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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In my opinion a 9, the highest possible is a natural girl. Nothing can be fake about her. Not boobs, not nose...nothing.

A natural, innate beauty that surpasses even average attractiveness.

Too many girls only look good with makeup. That is unacceptable for me in order to be a 9.

Examples are as follows...

K.D. Aubert

Jennifer Freeman

Jessica Alba

Charlise Theron

Adriana Lima

did I mention Jessica Alba, in her natural brunette look of course.
 

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Her face is horrid.

Another example of a fake, only beautiful with makeup girl.

Killer body, but most of it is synthetic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The only 10 in this world as far as you are concerned is yourself. That kind of pedestal is not big enough for two people. Also, girls fluctuate. She may be a 9.5 later in the evening, but when you wake up next to her, and her make up is gone and her breath stinks, she may look like a 6-7.

Also, rating celebrities is retarded because
1.) they wear more make-up then KISS
2.) have more plastic surgery then Michael,
3.) are more airbrushed then arnold's wrinkly muscles in T3.

Once when I lived in LA I saw JLo in a mall surrounded by like 10 big thug-looking bodyguards (all of them were over 6'5 and 300lbs), and she looked way different in real life then on screen. When you see her airbrushed booty on a mag, it's easy to give her a high rating, but when you see her in person, you realize that there are many ordinary non-celebrity women that look way better.
 

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umm this is kinda silly. alot of guys have different taste. so most of the names that pop up on here, not everyone will like. it's always gonna be different. whoever said tara reid was a 9, get your eyes checked. she looks twice her age and she is not hot. she looks old and tired. the only decent names in here i've seen so far are jessica alba and adriana lima. anyway... this is silly. but if it means anything;

MindOverMatter is true. many celebs are seen fake. in magazines, air brushed. i have seen alot more non celebs that look better. celebs are just made to look perfect... it's all about looking good out there in the media. almost every pic in a magazine (advert for products, etc) are not even half real. all the face detail has been air brushed away.
 

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it makes me laugh that guys criticize me and that other guy for saying that tara reid is a 10... we're talking about our opinions... fatality, would you like it if i laughed at your personal 10? i don't think so, hence stop judjing other guys' opinions

anyway, in my book, monica bellucci is an 8 (and just because she has a very beautiful body, i don't like her face at all), jessica alba is the only other 10 that comes to my mind, besides tara

if i could have a threesome with tara reid and jessica alba, i think i'd die
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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