Examples of Flirting

[monad]

I can find tons of stuff on the net of the general outline of what flirting is but very little examples. Does anyone know where I can find examples
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[SayWord?]

just playfully roast the girls
that's what i do atleast

 

[Nouse4one]

Read tucker max's book titled pick up lines
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[potato]

I can find tons of stuff on the net of the general outline of what flirting is but very little examples. Does anyone know where I can find examples
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You shouldn't have to talk to flirt. It should be with your eyes.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

everyone knows this stuff, do a search on here or even google

 

[SayWord?]

everyone knows this stuff, do a search on here or even google

he obviously doesn't know it:crazy:

 

[War Against Betaism]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16966

There's a lot of examples there. Flirting is a lot more than just what you say though. It mostly has to do with your voice tone and pitch. You have to sound playful and sarcastic.

 

[Ian19]

Check out the boot camp pdf...there's some good scenario's like that in there.

 

[jesusrules]

basically smiling and looking deeply into her eyes.

 

[onthepath]

How the hell do you put on cologne??

whooops, wrong page

 

[amoka]

There is not cookbook for flirting. It must come naturaly

 

[Maxtro]

There is not cookbook for flirting. It must come naturaly

Very true. The most important thing about flirting is that you have to have fun. If you aren't in the state of mind where you can have a good time doing it, then you can't flirt.

If you aren't used to doing it, flirting can be hard. Read the guide to flirting. BTW it's super long.

I am still not used to flirting and I need a lot more practice.

 

[War Against Betaism]

There is not cookbook for flirting. It must come naturaly

That's true, but those who don't have much of a clue how flirting works can see or read examples of flirting to get a much better grasp of how it operates so they can perform it by themselves.

 

[billy_bronx]

eye contact when flirting

Your eyes are probably your most important flirting tool. We tend to think of our eyes mainly as a means of receiving information, but they are also extremely high-powered transmitters of vital social signals. How you look at another person, meet his or her gaze and look away can make all the difference between a successful, enjoyable flirtation and an embarrassing or hurtful encounter.

Eye contact – looking directly into the eyes of another person – is such a powerful, emotionally loaded act of communication that we normally restrict it to very brief glances. Prolonged eye contact between two people indicates intense emotion, and is either an act of love or an act of hostility. It is so disturbing that in normal social encounters, we avoid eye contacts of more than one second. Among a crowd of strangers in a public setting, eye contacts will generally last only a fraction of second, and most people will avoid making any eye contact at all.

This is very good news for anyone wishing to initiate a flirtation with an attractive stranger. Even from across a crowded room at a party, you can signal your interest in someone merely by making eye contact and attempting to hold your target's gaze for more than one second (not too much more, though, or you will seem threatening). If your target maintains eye contact with you for more than one second, the chances are that he/she might return your interest. If after this initial contact, your target looks away briefly and then looks back to meet your gaze a second time, you can safely assume that he/she is interested. If these eye contacts trigger a smile, you can approach your target with some confidence.

If, on the other hand, your target avoids making eye contact with you, or looks away after a fraction of a second and does not look back again, you should probably assume that your interest is not returned. There is still the possibility that your target is just a very shy person – and some females may be understandably wary of signalling any interest in male strangers. The only way to find out is by close observation of your target's behaviour towards others. Does she consistently avoid direct eye-contact with men? Does he seem nervous, anxious or aloof in his interactions with other women? If so, your target's reluctance to meet your gaze may be nothing personal, and it might be worth approaching, but only with considerable caution.

Once you have approached your target, you will need to make eye contact again in order to strike up a conversation. As soon as your eyes meet, you may begin to speak. Once a conversation begins, it is normal for eye contact to be broken as the speaker looks away. In conversations, the person who is speaking looks away more than the person who is listening, and turn-taking is governed by a characteristic pattern of looking, eye contact and looking away.

So, to signal that you have finished speaking and invite a response, you then look back at your target again. To show interest while your target is speaking, you need to look at his/her face about three-quarters of the time, in glances lasting between one and seven seconds. The person speaking will normally look at you for less than half this time, and direct eye contact will be intermittent, rarely lasting more than one second. When your target has finished speaking, and expects a response, he or she will look at you and make brief eye contact again to indicate that it is your turn.

The basic rules for pleasant conversation are: glance at the other person's face more when you are listening, glance away more when you are speaking and make brief eye contact to initiate turn-taking. The key words here are 'glance' and 'brief': avoid prolonged staring either at the other person or away.

The most common mistake people make when flirting is to overdo the eye contact in a premature attempt to increase intimacy. This only makes the other person feel uncomfortable, and may send misleading signals. Some men also blow their chances by carrying on a conversation with a woman's breasts, rather than looking at her face.
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[Dilberto]

Good tips, man!

 

[comic_relief]

It's 90% body language and 10% verbal communication.

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