Example of My Convo Skills

[SargeMaximus]

People been telling me I need convo skills with girls online. Pics below from today:

 

[SargeMaximus]

If I was having that convo, after her "guilty pleasures" text, I would have said "what other guilty pleasures do you have"

Yeah but here’s my issue: when I’m in conversation mode, I’m not sexual. It’s like the blood is either in my dlck or in my brain, but not both. I can’t do both. Because if I go sexual I become more and more direct till I just do what I did in the last thread

more pics below

 

[SargeMaximus]

Maybe just that little bit of convo is enough to turn sexual and then run with the sexual talk just a little bit before going direct like usual.

Yeah but I can’t switch that fast. My mind is like a tanker ship, I can’t just switch on a dime

 

[SargeMaximus]

Girl just ghosted me so there you go @Modern Man Advice , perfect example of me not being direct and sexual and losing the girl

 

[SargeMaximus]

Black and White thinking is a sign of mental illness. It's a personality disorder.

Communicating with women is not a black and white binary. Either you talk about "boring cooking recipes" or "I wanna shove ma d1ck in your ear." That's extremely mentally ill.

Conversation is nuanced. You're so far behind dude. You need to learn how to be human first.

This is why I ignore you. You’re missing the whole point.

edit: and for your information, she was responding quickly when we were talking about food and ghosted when I switched to dating talk.
Pics below

 

[SargeMaximus]

And my last message before she ghosted

 

[SW15]

And my last message before she ghosted

Ghosting is a sign of failure

 

[SargeMaximus]

Ghosting is a sign of failure

Yes I know, I’m posting this for @Modern Man Advice to see that normal convos don’t work for me

 

[Robert28]

Oh I see what’s happening! This is plenty of fish. No wonder you’re getting ghosted. Dude that site hasn’t been worth a damn since like 2010.

 

[SargeMaximus]

l.

Oh I see what’s happening! This is plenty of fish. No wonder you’re getting ghosted. Dude that site hasn’t been worth a damn since like 2010.

Lol. Blame the site when your advice doesn’t work, got it

 

[Zimbabwe]

You could say

"There's this new cafe downtown that I've been meaning to try, you should come with me at X time"

 

[jaymbrs]

l.

Lol. Blame the site when your advice doesn’t work, got it

You're just not direct enough, dude. Ya'll can have this convo when you're actually on the date.

 

[SargeMaximus]

You could say

"There's this new cafe downtown that I've been meaning to try, you should come with me at X time"

Why would I ask her out when she bores me?

 

[Zimbabwe]

Why would I ask her out when she bores me?

You're talking to her about food on a dating website, what did you honestly expect?

 

[SargeMaximus]

You're talking to her about food on a dating website, what did you honestly expect?

This is my point. Whenever I go direct you geniuses tell me to be less direct and have a conversation. Bull rapport, etc. So gtfo

I purposely did this because I knew it wouldn’t work but I needed an example for you guys to show you your advice doesn’t work.

also, why is it she ghosts me when I want to talk about the dating aspect but not when we talking about food eh?

 

[Zimbabwe]

This is my point. Whenever I go direct you geniuses tell me to be less direct and have a conversation. Bull rapport, etc. So gtfo

I purposely did this because I knew it wouldn’t work but I needed an example for you guys to show you your advice doesn’t work.

also, why is it she ghosts me when I want to talk about the dating aspect but not when we talking about food eh?

You: What you up to

Her: Just cleaning and you?

You: Just got back from an epic session at the gym hit a new PR today

Her: wow that's awesome, where do you workout at?

You: The BBC Gym, you know there's this new cafe that opened up nearby I'm actually heading down there this evening, you should come join me

Her: Great what Time?

You: X time, bring a nice dress and some heels

 

[SargeMaximus]

This is my point. Whenever I go direct you geniuses tell me to be less direct and have a conversation. Bull rapport, etc. So gtfo

You: What you up to

Her: Just cleaning and you?

You: Just got back from an epic session at the gym hit a new PR today

Her: wow that's awesome, where do you workout at?

You: The BBC Gym, you know there's this new cafe that opened up nearby I'm actually heading down there this evening, you should come join me

Her: Great what Time?

You: X time, bring a nice dress and some heals

So go direct like I usually do, got it. What epic advice

 

[SargeMaximus]

Fwiw (as a woman), skip the food talk, or any small talk, sorry that was a huge YAWN @SargeMaximus .

Better to start off direct - "what brings you to POF, what are you looking for"?

Most women love a man diving in deep like that straight away.

There was a previous poster @da dynamically who would post his text game on this site. Search TEXT GAME under topics and you will find.

He was very direct, no BS small talk, and would quickly escalate to sexual.

It really worked well for him, from what I read, he was quite successful with the ladies.

He had a boyish charm and style even though a self-admitted sociopath, not in a malicious way.

Lol, I cannot believe I just posted that, but it's true!

Wow you guys really are clueless, don’t you realize that the whole reason I did this post is because people were telling me I was being too direct. And I knew this would be the reaction I would get but I posted it here just because I was always telling me you got actually have conversations first. So here it is now lo and behold you’re all telling me that I have to be more direct. This is the most hilarious BS ever

 

[Striker_93]

Some people just don't have it, everybody doesn't make to the NBA, everyone doesn't become rich and successful ect.....

Maybe you're not that physically attractive ?

One of the reasons this aint working for you is because you keep trying too hard, thinking too deep into it, constantly worrying about "game" or saying the right thing and dumb sh!t like that.

Just act like a normal fvcking human and talk. There's is no right way to talk to women, there is no magic words or techniques which is what you keep asking for, you not gone find it.

The biggest truth that is often ignored by individuals like yourself is there no need for strategies and game tactics, they lied to you, there's no need for it.

I'm 28 years old at this point I'm too old to be running attraction games on women, it's corny, I'm not in high school anymore.

When I interact with women I'm not trying to game them lol i engage with them like a normal person and I let them be attracted to my demeanor, my personality, my vibe and energy not my "game tactics"

If all else fails then maybe you just don't have it and you will either acquire it or not, that's life.

That's why I hate that "game" talk because It causes inexperienced guys to overthink which is counter-productive to your success.

Talking/interacting with women is not a fvcking chess match

 

[SargeMaximus]

One of the reasons this aint working for you is because you keep trying too hard, thinking too deep into it, constantly worrying about "game" or saying the right thing and dumb sh!t like that.

Just act like a normal fvcking human and talk. There's is no right way to talk to women,

That’s exactly what I was doing. Please you and @catsmeow block me because I don’t want you giving me anymore advice, I’ll do the same. You’re both missing the whole point of this post which is to prove that doing what you suggest doesn’t work! I WAS having a normal fvcking conversation and got ghosted so fvck right off with your useless advice