I didn't delete her from my facebook when we broke up - like you girls would do, because your little hearts are so broken, boo hoo. And that was a smart decision after she became a state's attorney and my friends would get arrested in her county. All of my exes would do anything for me. My ex-wife is always trying to loan me money. Another ex drove two hours one way in the middle of the night to pick me up last week when I needed a ride. You can make b!tches do anything if you just don't let yourself act like a b!tch when your feelings are hurt.
Sosuave can often be a support group for the emotionally handicapped, who gather in a circle jerk to affirm each others' poor decisions and delusional beliefs. But when that's called "being a man," someone needs to step in and correct you children. Being a man is getting over your problems, not rationalizing them as justified and holding on to them forever. That's tremendously self-limiting behavior, and you're not helping anyone when you encourage it.
