ex wife asking about me through common friend

[ositosucio]

so after 6 months of being divorced ( after a7 years marriage, divorced initiated by me after finding out she was cheating with her boss ) she will be meeting my brother's gf for dinner this Sunday.

She asked her about me and if I still had a gf ( she found out through another friend , I have been NC since the divorce ) She told me brother's gf she was happy for me.


The way I see it is she has had a few bad relationships and her hamster is starting to miss me and realize how good she had it.

I have to say here that during these past 6 months she has been dating much older guys for $$$. basically became a goldigger *****, following the steps of her friends. Her latest guy is 29 years older than her. I am guessing she now is realizing $$$ doesnt make you happy.


So my question is:

I still have feelings for her but I am set with my new gf ( 9 years younger than me )...do I send her a message through my brother's gf or remain NC and tell my brother's gf not to mention me at all and just say you hasnt seen me or heard about me?

 

[expos]

So my question is:

I still have feelings for her but I am set with my new gf ( 9 years younger than me )...do I send her a message through my brother's gf or remain NC and tell my brother's gf not to mention me at all and just say you hasnt seen me or heard about me?

NC. Don't even have your brother's gf mention you.

If your ex decides to reach out to you, sit on the message for a while and wait a couple days to contact her if you really want to open that door again. That is if you want to fvck her - and make it clear that you want no-strings attached sex and not a relationship with her again if you can emotionally handle it.

How long have you been with your new GF?

My ex-wife is a gold digger as well. You can't turn off that switch in a woman if they have it.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I still talk to my ex-wife. She calls me every few months. On the one hand, I will always love her as a person. But on the other hand, I enjoy torturing her with regret over her decision to divorce me. It is what it is.

 

[ositosucio]

NC. Don't even have your brother's gf mention you.

If your ex decides to reach out to you, sit on the message for a while and wait a couple days to contact her if you really want to open that door again. That is if you want to fvck her - and make it clear that you want no-strings attached sex and not a relationship with her again if you can emotionally handle it.

How long have you been with your new GF?

My ex-wife is a gold digger as well. You can't turn off that switch in a woman if they have it.

agree with you 100%. But I think all decent looking women have that golddigging gene. It is just a matter of what activates it.

I am looking for nothing more than a few ****s. Nothing more.

What she did and even worse, what she is doing now, puts her in a very special list I have of dumb, goldigging, insignificant 30 something crap women.


I never saw the goldigging side of her during our marriage. She was truly a great wife and liked to save my money. However, When **** hit 30 and starting hanging out with her friends ( russian sluts ) I saw a change. I think she wanted me to give her access to my bank accounts, have a kid, etc, etc.

So I am sure part of her slutty behavior during the last 6 months have been a direct effect of knowing The WALL is quickly approaching.

I am curious as to know how long you were married. We are the same age.

thx


edit: i have been with the new girl 4 months.

 

[ositosucio]

I still talk to my ex-wife. She calls me every few months. On the one hand, I will always love her as a person. But on the other hand, I enjoy torturing her with regret over her decision to divorce me. It is what it is.

yeah I see what you are saying. That is exactly the position I would like to have.

Though I made the decision to divorce her. After I caught her cheating I even gave her a chance to quit her job and go to counseling ( I know , beta gayness ) but she didnt take it. That's the day I called my attorney to start drafting a divorce contract.


Lessons learned:

Never give in to a woman bickering about having access to all your ****
All women can be golddigging *****s.
There is always something better around the corner.

 

[Albatross953]

Hey that's not beta gayness! You gave her a chance and then walked. Begging or letting her continue...now that would be beta.
don't let anyone tell you different.

 

[ositosucio]

Hey that's not beta gayness! You gave her a chance and then walked. Begging or letting her continue...now that would be beta.
don't let anyone tell you different.

yeah thats how i see it.

At that point I had no other way than to walk away.

 

[expos]

What she did and even worse, what she is doing now, puts her in a very special list I have of dumb, goldigging, insignificant 30 something crap women.

OK - I take that back. No contact for good. She's too sh!tty for you to even put your **** in. She's a cheater and a gold digger. She doesn't deserve you.

I am curious as to know how long you were married. We are the same age.

Married three years. No kids. Sexless marriage. Cut the b!tch loose. With a new girl now.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

She cheated on you? She's OUT. I don't even see why you're asking this question in the first place...

 

[ositosucio]

She cheated on you? She's OUT. I don't even see why you're asking this question in the first place...

I know what you mean but I did share 8 years of my life with this person
So a there are still feelings involved.

I actually have the possibility of destroying her
Current relationship and making her life miserable
For her sluttiness but I have contained myself and stayed
Nc.

Some days I want some form of friendly contact. A hi once every
2 months or something. Other days I want to
Completely expose her with her current bf, friends
And family as the goldigging ***** she is.

 

[adam225]

I still talk to my ex-wife. She calls me every few months. On the one hand, I will always love her as a person. But on the other hand, I enjoy torturing her with regret over her decision to divorce me. It is what it is.

I like :yes:

Repped

 

[Jair213]

I know what you mean but I did share 8 years of my life with this person
So a there are still feelings involved.

I actually have the possibility of destroying her
Current relationship and making her life miserable
For her sluttiness but I have contained myself and stayed
Nc.

Some days I want some form of friendly contact. A hi once every
2 months or something. Other days I want to
Completely expose her with her current bf, friends
And family as the goldigging ***** she is.

Get money out of her. Threaten her that you will do that.
Youll profit from all the golddiggin.

Think about it.
Threaten her with exposin her if She doesnt give a couple of grand every month
From her Hold diggin earnings.

 

[ositosucio]

Get money out of her. Threaten her that you will do that.
Youll profit from all the golddiggin.

Think about it.
Threaten her with exposin her if She doesnt give a couple of grand every month
From her Hold diggin earnings.

lol I was serious about it. I have a ton of videos/pictures that will make her current BF or any future BF realize what a goldigging ***** she is and NEVER NEVER consider her for a LTR.