Hey guys,
I want to update you guys on what happened after my earlier post about my ex who cheated on me when she moved overseas and ended up leaving me for the other guy. When she did do it, I went total AFC for about a week but then decided have minimal contact for awhile and finally, with the advice of a few, I cut all contact.
I have cut all contact for a few months already as i wanted to get over it. I deleted her from my facebook and on msn.
Recently, I found out that she has been asking mutual friends about me and asking about how I am doing. About a week ago, she tried adding me on facebook. I ignored the request because I know that she has intimate albums dedicated to her and her new guy on her page and this is not stuff that I want to see. I feel that it really is my choice if or not I wanted to ignore the request.
Yesterday, I was tagging old photos of myself on my friends page. I did not realise it but one of the photos that i tagged happened to be from one of her albums. It was a photo of me and some friends. This resulted in me sending a tag request to her. I panicked a little when this happened but then she immediately approved it so i did not think anything more of it.
The next day, I realised that the photo had been untagged. I then found out that she deleted every single photo she had of me on her profile in that one day. She then changed her msn p.m. First it was '*******'...then it was 'im happy u blocked me'...then it was 'at least im happier now'...then now it is 'im better off without you'. Some of this she even wrote in 'fliptext', which i know she learnt from some guy she talks to. Almost like it is an attempt to mock me.
My question is..what did i do??? All i did was tag a photo on an online community. The whole time I did not say a single thing to her or communicate to her in any way. Why does she have to advertise all this to the world and tell people that shes happier now. I never treated her badly at all.
I also want to know what do you guys think about the photo tagging. I did not realise it when i tagged. Now that i think of it a little, was it too much???was it mean and rude of me?? am I the one tht did wrong? After all, she does not know that i did not realise it. If it was, then i will acknowledge it.
What do you guys advice me to do?She is ruining my name. What is your take on the situation? I really want to try and udnerstand what is happening here because I am a little dumbfounded to be honest. I dont see how she would care so much about a little tag request. She was the one who cheated on me after all. I want to try and learn and understand what is happening here. I would also appreciate some advice on what i should do. Its been 4-5 months already. Shouldnt she just continue on with her life, be happy with her new guy, and leave me alone? Please tell me what do you guys think.
Thx guys. I really appreciate any advice. Any help will be greatly appreciated
I want to update you guys on what happened after my earlier post about my ex who cheated on me when she moved overseas and ended up leaving me for the other guy. When she did do it, I went total AFC for about a week but then decided have minimal contact for awhile and finally, with the advice of a few, I cut all contact.
I have cut all contact for a few months already as i wanted to get over it. I deleted her from my facebook and on msn.
Recently, I found out that she has been asking mutual friends about me and asking about how I am doing. About a week ago, she tried adding me on facebook. I ignored the request because I know that she has intimate albums dedicated to her and her new guy on her page and this is not stuff that I want to see. I feel that it really is my choice if or not I wanted to ignore the request.
Yesterday, I was tagging old photos of myself on my friends page. I did not realise it but one of the photos that i tagged happened to be from one of her albums. It was a photo of me and some friends. This resulted in me sending a tag request to her. I panicked a little when this happened but then she immediately approved it so i did not think anything more of it.
The next day, I realised that the photo had been untagged. I then found out that she deleted every single photo she had of me on her profile in that one day. She then changed her msn p.m. First it was '*******'...then it was 'im happy u blocked me'...then it was 'at least im happier now'...then now it is 'im better off without you'. Some of this she even wrote in 'fliptext', which i know she learnt from some guy she talks to. Almost like it is an attempt to mock me.
My question is..what did i do??? All i did was tag a photo on an online community. The whole time I did not say a single thing to her or communicate to her in any way. Why does she have to advertise all this to the world and tell people that shes happier now. I never treated her badly at all.
I also want to know what do you guys think about the photo tagging. I did not realise it when i tagged. Now that i think of it a little, was it too much???was it mean and rude of me?? am I the one tht did wrong? After all, she does not know that i did not realise it. If it was, then i will acknowledge it.
What do you guys advice me to do?She is ruining my name. What is your take on the situation? I really want to try and udnerstand what is happening here because I am a little dumbfounded to be honest. I dont see how she would care so much about a little tag request. She was the one who cheated on me after all. I want to try and learn and understand what is happening here. I would also appreciate some advice on what i should do. Its been 4-5 months already. Shouldnt she just continue on with her life, be happy with her new guy, and leave me alone? Please tell me what do you guys think.
Thx guys. I really appreciate any advice. Any help will be greatly appreciated
