"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ex wants to f*ck, but has been with at least 2 dudes since me

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Just talked to an ex I haven't communicated with in about 9 months. She wants to hook up for a few sessions, and I'm down. My only concern is that i know she's been with at least 2 dudes since me, maybe more. I've always been paranoid about STDs and she couldn't be anymore opposite.

I'm trying to decide whether I should just stick it or tell her we can f*ck only after she gets tested. What would you guys do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Depends how good she was?

Good->Great? I'd wrap and tap it, hard.
 
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Man...only if you are completely over her...

I have some ex's...just the thought of them having sex with someone else...and enjoying it...sickens me. Many of them I was their first, or their first to show them new positions, and stuff like that...ugh.
 
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I'm 100% over her, no question. I ended it a long time ago and haven't looked back, but I wouldn't mind hitting it again. The only issue for me is the possibility of getting an STD.
 
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Step 1: Get the two of you drunk
Step 2: Wrap your gear.
Step 3: PIITB.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Theoretically I would want her to get tested, but... You won't know if she does/what her results are anyway, as in she can lie if she wants to, so I don't really know if there's any point.
 
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guywhoneedshelp said:
Man...only if you are completely over her...

I have some ex's...just the thought of them having sex with someone else...and enjoying it...sickens me. Many of them I was their first, or their first to show them new positions, and stuff like that...ugh.
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Aww look who misses his girlfriends

OP you're on a pickup forum and don't use condoms? Stop worrying about STDs I guarantee you're gonna get one.
 
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Step 1 - If hot, Tap her > Not Drunk.
Step 2 - If Ugly, Tap her > Really Really Drunk > Then you can be like "Oh, I was so drunk i slept with <Ugly Person Here>
Step 3 - If she is a hoe > Tap her friends!

Epic Plan is Epic.
 
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I don't see why guys feel the need to hit the rewind button and go back and knock it out with an ex but alright here's what you do since you are paranoid about STD's...

Just wear a condom and look at her pvssy before you go plowing away and if there's no herpes outbreak festering on it chances are you'll be completely safe.
 
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Ex sex makes for the best angry sex.
That said, wrap it good and don't go down on her.
Don't get involved beyond sex.
Toss Tabasco in the condom when you're done. If she tries anything babyesque it'll be funny.
Tap her friends afterwords:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I say only do it if you can guarantee yourself you will not get emotionally involved. If you cant guarantee that you are asking for trouble.
 
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