ex wants to be f*ck buddies

[lebRambo]

hey guys.

so, last night i find out from one of her friends that my ex wants to have like a casual sex relationship with me. I know that she is too proud to admit this to me. Thing is, i wouldn't mind casually having sex with her. How should I go about letting her know that wouldn't object to this sort of thing without sounding like a needy AFC?

 

[Kourt]

call her up

Hey whats up _____ (instert name here), think you'd want to come over for a movie and maybe a little something more?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by lebRambo
hey guys.

so, last night i find out from one of her friends that my ex wants to have like a casual sex relationship with me. I know that she is too proud to admit this to me. Thing is, i wouldn't mind casually having sex with her. How should I go about letting her know that wouldn't object to this sort of thing without sounding like a needy AFC?

Fuvk buddies only work one way. Meaning she can be your fuvk buddy, then become your gf, but she CANNOT be your gf, then become your fuvk buddy because one of you, if not both of you will become emotionally attached AGAIN. So if you want to be back with her, or have her begging for another go at a relationship then do as you please.



PIMP

 

[cave dweller]

buddy?

Rambo,

Hey, don't become a fvck buddy with your ex...

Move on and forget her.....

cave dweller

 

[J.R.G.G]

me and one of my ex became fvck buddies, it lasted several months, she agreed on being just that since i stated that i didnt want anything serious, she had swear that she had no feelings for me and that she liked the way we were (just fvck buddies). But after a while she started saying stuff like using the word ''us'' and wanting to be my gf again so then thats when i stopped everything again. Ignored her calls for a while until she gave up. But now shes been texting me again about how much she misses me and stuff, so i wouldnt mind fvcking her a couple of times more if its only that.

So my advice if you want to have one of your ex's as a fvck buddy just make sure you dont have feelings or emotions for her other than being horny when you see her.

 

[lebRambo]

^^^

thanks for the great advice guys. I've decided to give it a go. I will, of course, be still gaming other girls while we have our fb relationship. as long as it is just sex, we will be fine.

 

[oilers05]

NOOOOOOOOOOO!! HAHA. I didn't read your post, because I didn't need to, the title was enough, the EXACT thing happened to me a month ago, and life's a mess because of it, please for your own good, just leave the offer!

 

[cave dweller]

the ex...........

Hey,

'Been there and done that'.

Don't go back and 'bang' your ex..........

cave dweller

 

[lebRambo]

haha! its like my d*ck and my brain are having a game of mortal kombat or something.

 

[Mercenary]

As a general rule, If you were the one to break it off with you ex, then casual sex is a huge NO.

You can not trust women that you've spurned. They end up poking holes in condoms or stealing your sperm.

 

[lebRambo]

she was the one who broke it off, and we are still friendly so I doubt she would poke a hole in my condom

that would f*ck her right up too. and she's on the pill, so its not likely she'd get pregnant anyway.

 

[Bible_Belt]

its like my d*ck and my brain are having a game of mortal kombat

That's the male existence.

 

[Black_Italian]

Don’t become **** buddies with you Ex it wont work. For all the reasons already posted by the other guys.

But I got a feeling you are the kind of guy who asks for advice then 20 people say no and you do it anyway.

 

[lebRambo]

^^^^
its not that I don't appreciate the advice, and I know that going ahead with this is against what everyone has said, but no one here has given real practical advice. Its all been 'don't. it won't work.' WHY won't it work? will it work under any conditions?

 

[naoi deag se deag]

Don't do it. My last FB was an ex and she went totally wack. After all this time I thought she had changed. It doesn't happen, though. Stay away.

 

[flexion_]

I wouldn't suggest you do this.

 

[JonJack]

Since you're curious and you don't mind giving it a try even after hearing other people's take on it, go for it. Go for it for the experience. Just don't come back here complaining about how bad it turned out if it does. Hopefully it'll turn out fine.

 

[J.R.G.G]

common guys, every situation is different, not because it didnt work for you means its not gonna work for anybody, ill say go for it man, just make sure u dont feel anything and be extra careful..make sure she dosent touch your condoms or steals your sperm.


And i dont think hes asking all of you guys to control his life and make dessiosions for him, he was just asking for opinions so if he listents to your negativeness sh!t or not its his business.


If she wants something else other than sex just back away... thats it!!! As easy as that.

 

[TedJustAdmitIt]

Well I'm gonna go against the flow here and say that as long as you think she can handle it and not start acting psycho ie: poking holes in condoms and sh!t then go for it.

Couple of things to bear in mind:

1)She knows,in no uncertain terms,that it's just fun and nothing else.
2)When,not if,when she starts to get emotional on you again you reaffirm the situation as nothing more than fun.....if that doesn't work then you finish it there and then.
(No need to be an arsehole about it though,just firm)

Being fukbuddies with your ex will most likely never be a long term thing due to the feelings you shared before.....chances are she will want it to go back to how it was.

I have been FBs with quite a few of my exs and on the whole it was a good idea.....I never saw them more than once a week,sometimes only once every two weeks and I was careful to never EVER give them any reason to think it would ever be anything more than a casual thing.

Good luck!