"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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EX wants me to "sleep-over"

dre007

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Basically, my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago, made up some bullsh*t about me saying she had zero attraction for me anymore. We went to diff. high schools. We don't talk until the middle of August.

In August, she started IMing me again, wondering how I was doing and we started to chat every now and then. It was time to go to college and said she will keep in touch with me and it looked like she had gained interest out of nowhere.

Fast foward to today. A week ago, she started txting almost everyday and was wondering when I would visit and stay the weekend because her "roomate was gone". She wanted to hit up some parties and show me around campus. Her college is about 2 hrs away.

She told me she misses me and really wants to see me and we can't just talk on the phone and IM forever. My problem is simple. I don't know if its a good idea to go and stay the weekend, because I mean, she broke up with me, and now that I've raised interest, she wants to hit things off again while I visit her. I'm afraid that she might be using me to go down just for a hookup and my friends have told me not to even think about fvckin goin down to see her.

The only thing that's changing my mind is that I really need some *****, I've been in a slump for a few months. I already made some sh*tty excuse as to why I couldn't go 2 weeks ago, and she has called me up again a few times and still wants me to stay the weekend at her dorm....What would u do if u were in my shoes
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Telos

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I would go, **** her, have a great time ... and then hookup with as many other girls at the parties she takes you to as well. What the hell are you afraid of? Stop caring about what she thinks.
 

window

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tell her if she wants the god sex she has to come and get it....don't go to her.
 
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