"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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EX wants me to "sleep-over"

dre007

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Basically, my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago, made up some bullsh*t about me saying she had zero attraction for me anymore. We went to diff. high schools. We don't talk until the middle of August.

In August, she started IMing me again, wondering how I was doing and we started to chat every now and then. It was time to go to college and said she will keep in touch with me and it looked like she had gained interest out of nowhere.

Fast foward to today. A week ago, she started txting almost everyday and was wondering when I would visit and stay the weekend because her "roomate was gone". She wanted to hit up some parties and show me around campus. Her college is about 2 hrs away.

She told me she misses me and really wants to see me and we can't just talk on the phone and IM forever. My problem is simple. I don't know if its a good idea to go and stay the weekend, because I mean, she broke up with me, and now that I've raised interest, she wants to hit things off again while I visit her. I'm afraid that she might be using me to go down just for a hookup and my friends have told me not to even think about fvckin goin down to see her.

The only thing that's changing my mind is that I really need some *****, I've been in a slump for a few months. I already made some sh*tty excuse as to why I couldn't go 2 weeks ago, and she has called me up again a few times and still wants me to stay the weekend at her dorm....What would u do if u were in my shoes
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Telos

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I would go, **** her, have a great time ... and then hookup with as many other girls at the parties she takes you to as well. What the hell are you afraid of? Stop caring about what she thinks.
 

window

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tell her if she wants the god sex she has to come and get it....don't go to her.
 
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