"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ex turned into a drug addicted hooker

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I used to date this girl that was really hot a few years back, and I thought it would be nice to meet up for a bang session. Started talking to her on Facebook, she was sending me pictures and looked amazing. So I went and picked her up and came back to my place. But once we were in the light I noticed she looked different. Her face was covered with this type of drug addict acne and some of her teeth were missing. She was talking and sometimes her sentences weren't even making any sense. I had a bottle of booze so I was thinking that I'm going to need this. Started drinking, next thing I knew I was hitting it (with a rubber). Anyway her puss just smelled like dirty hooker, she was terrible at kissing, some of the worst kissing I have ever experienced. I couldn't finish because she was so disgusting. Is that normal not to finish under this type of circumstance? It's so messed up because I used to love this girl and now it seems like she completely ruined herself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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devilkingx2

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not having you in her life ruined her life :p
 

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What I am actually wondering is if it's actually normal to even get a boner in this situation....
 

dustmuffin

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Crap, with the missing teeth and drug acne I would have been looking for a way out. Did she have bleeding gums? Um...I have to wash my hair, you have to leave.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This happened to me between 1988 and 1993 with one girl, and between 1993 and 1997 with another girl. They just get worse and worse. Keep in mind guys, that 21 year old beauty you are dating now - she is likely on the fast track to being a crack or heroin junkie. Remember that the next time she whines because you looked at that girl.

And meth is the worst - don't ever associate with anyone who does crystal meth (it's not the same as it was in the 1980's when it was just speed, now it's Prestone).
 

dustmuffin

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This happened to me between 1988 and 1993 with one girl, and between 1993 and 1997 with another girl. They just get worse and worse. Keep in mind guys, that 21 year old beauty you are dating now - she is likely on the fast track to being a crack or heroin junkie. Remember that the next time she whines because you looked at that girl.

And meth is the worst - don't ever associate with anyone who does crystal meth (it's not the same as it was in the 1980's when it was just speed, now it's Prestone).
Good rules to abide by. I have seen so many messed up woman it's unreal. Run away their pu ssy is not worth it.
 

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I knew a girl who got high on heroine and cocaine with her boyfriend a few years back. She was 16 and he was 28 back then.

Fast forward to today, I saw her riding a bike on the sidewalk. After a double glance... She looked extremely slim and her face looked really old and dated. Keep in mind she would be about 19 by now. She looked like she was in her late 30's.

It kind of made me feel good about myself by comparing someone in a worse situation.
 
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