Ex trying to ruin any new prospects

[kingwilliam]

I have been broken up with my ex of 5 years for about a year now......we still talked most of that year......but about 2 months ago I told her that it simply wasn't going to work out and that it was best if we didn't talk or hang out......


In the meantime i have met a really cool chick and we are really hitting it off......................... my ex found out. She sent this girl a message on myspace (god I am starting to hate myspace)

Basically the message said "we are still talking and you probably shouldn't get your hopes up" blah, blah, blah.


Anyway, the new girl I am seeing told me about it......she was pretty cool about it, but I sensed from her that she probably won't put up with too many instances like this. She said she is simply going to ignore her..........

I really like this girl and I would hate for my stupid, jealous, and semi-psycho ex to screw this up for me.

What the hell do I do??????

 

[SharinganUser]

Well you could either tell your ex to leave you to alone, and then cut off all contact with her. I mean really cut off all contact. Btw, how did she find out about this new girl?

Or you could plant cocaine on your x and call the cops on her. She'll have trouble screwing up your chances when she is in jail.

 

[kingwilliam]

I don't know how the hell she found out about her.....I try to cut off all contact......she calls me every day....

I would get my phone number changed but it is my business line....I can't afford to make such a drastic change. This is stressing me out. I told her to leave me alone.

 

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[romangod]

I don't know how the hell she found out about her.....I try to cut off all contact......she calls me every day....

I would get my phone number changed but it is my business line....I can't afford to make such a drastic change. This is stressing me out. I told her to leave me alone.

"Restraining order"



Cheers!

 

[SharpGame]

Your ex flipped the preselection attraction switch in the new girl for you. She did you a favor. Don't worry about it. Make it into a joke with the new girl - a little conspiracy between the two of you that you can laugh about. You know how girls like to compete with one another.

But to be safe, change all your passwords - voicemail, email, myspace, etc. Also, your phone company might be able to block her number for you.

 

[jophil28]

I think Sharpgame is correct. Guys are more attractive when there is the "other" woman.

Unless you are business partners, co-workers or have a child together.. I would avoid talking with the ex anyway... it doesn't sound healthy to you...

You can make this work FOR you. Say this to the new chick , " My ex had some problems - that is why she is my ex, and extreme jeaoulsy was one of them. I guess she just cant let go and move on."

YOur ex's interference will work for you. Women love feeling that they have "won" a man away from another women - especially a jealous ex. who still WANTS him.
Your ex's actions say that she stiil wants you, You are the center of a tug o war. In a way, you are The PRIZE.

Enjoy !