"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ex trying to ruin any new prospects

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I have been broken up with my ex of 5 years for about a year now......we still talked most of that year......but about 2 months ago I told her that it simply wasn't going to work out and that it was best if we didn't talk or hang out......


In the meantime i have met a really cool chick and we are really hitting it off......................... my ex found out. She sent this girl a message on myspace (god I am starting to hate myspace)

Basically the message said "we are still talking and you probably shouldn't get your hopes up" blah, blah, blah.


Anyway, the new girl I am seeing told me about it......she was pretty cool about it, but I sensed from her that she probably won't put up with too many instances like this. She said she is simply going to ignore her..........

I really like this girl and I would hate for my stupid, jealous, and semi-psycho ex to screw this up for me.

What the hell do I do??????
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well you could either tell your ex to leave you to alone, and then cut off all contact with her. I mean really cut off all contact. Btw, how did she find out about this new girl?

Or you could plant cocaine on your x and call the cops on her. She'll have trouble screwing up your chances when she is in jail.
 
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I don't know how the hell she found out about her.....I try to cut off all contact......she calls me every day....

I would get my phone number changed but it is my business line....I can't afford to make such a drastic change. This is stressing me out. I told her to leave me alone.
 
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kingwilliam said:
I don't know how the hell she found out about her.....I try to cut off all contact......she calls me every day....

I would get my phone number changed but it is my business line....I can't afford to make such a drastic change. This is stressing me out. I told her to leave me alone.
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"Restraining order"



Cheers!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your ex flipped the preselection attraction switch in the new girl for you. She did you a favor. Don't worry about it. Make it into a joke with the new girl - a little conspiracy between the two of you that you can laugh about. You know how girls like to compete with one another.

But to be safe, change all your passwords - voicemail, email, myspace, etc. Also, your phone company might be able to block her number for you.
 
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Mr Autobahn said:
I think Sharpgame is correct. Guys are more attractive when there is the "other" woman.

Unless you are business partners, co-workers or have a child together.. I would avoid talking with the ex anyway... it doesn't sound healthy to you...
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You can make this work FOR you. Say this to the new chick , " My ex had some problems - that is why she is my ex, and extreme jeaoulsy was one of them. I guess she just cant let go and move on."

YOur ex's interference will work for you. Women love feeling that they have "won" a man away from another women - especially a jealous ex. who still WANTS him.
Your ex's actions say that she stiil wants you, You are the center of a tug o war. In a way, you are The PRIZE.

Enjoy !
 
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