"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ex texts me this....thoughts

rjames407

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Hey guys, I split up with a girl about a year and a half ago but kept in contact (less so recently) and saw her a year ago for drinks and slept with her. I turned afc over the summer after meeting with her and then decided to cut all ties. But recently rang her and had a quick chat, but nothing else. She text me last night at 4am 'when was the last time we saw each other x'.

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were, or if anything similar has happened to anyone.

Cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AgentRice

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she wants some. and is going to the one sure thing...

if its just sex then hit it and dip.. if u want more dont do it
 

WC2

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She wants sex. Be warned; if you give her sex and a good laugh without getting your emotions involved, she will try to get back in your life! You've been warned, so make an educated decision.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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