"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ex texts me this....thoughts

rjames407

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Hey guys, I split up with a girl about a year and a half ago but kept in contact (less so recently) and saw her a year ago for drinks and slept with her. I turned afc over the summer after meeting with her and then decided to cut all ties. But recently rang her and had a quick chat, but nothing else. She text me last night at 4am 'when was the last time we saw each other x'.

Just wondering what peoples thoughts were, or if anything similar has happened to anyone.

Cheers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she wants some. and is going to the one sure thing...

if its just sex then hit it and dip.. if u want more dont do it
 

WC2

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She wants sex. Be warned; if you give her sex and a good laugh without getting your emotions involved, she will try to get back in your life! You've been warned, so make an educated decision.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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