Ex texted me out of no where

[Social_disturbance]

My ex girlfriend texted me after we've been split up for 3-4 months already literally out of no where. She said hi and wanted to see how things were going with me. I can't lie and say that I wouldn't want anything with her. Is this even worth responding to?

 

[DonJuan11]

My ex girlfriend texted me after we've been split up for 3-4 months already literally out of no where. She said hi and wanted to see how things were going with me. I can't lie and say that I wouldn't want anything with her. Is this even worth responding to?

I can't lie and say that I wouldn't want anything with her. Enough double negatives in this sentence?

You say "Hi, things are well with me. How is everything with you?"

 

[hondo928]

LOL, this happened to me last week...makes me think no matter what I do they all come back. Sure she wasn't drunk, if you can just bone her and move on

 

[MoneyManHolmes]

I can't lie and say that I wouldn't want anything with her. Enough double negatives in this sentence?

You say "Hi, things are well with me. How is everything with you?"

It's called a litote IMO.

 

[AFC Championship]

My reply...

"Ha ha, couldn't control yourself, could you? Yes, I'm that damn good. "

 

[tony-montana]

my ex gf did that with me after i dumped her. kept calling me and texting me. soon she got the hint. i kept ending the phone calls early. she stopped calling after a couple months. it's all up to you if you wanna get laid. i wouldnt start dating them again though. they are your ex for a reason.

 

[Mavrick]

I can't lie and say that I wouldn't want anything with her. Enough double negatives in this sentence?

Please explain to me where the double negatives are in that sentence. Are you sure you know what a double negative is (e.g. "I don't have no time")?

 

[SomethingClever]

She wants your one-eyed monster. Plain and simple

 

[aix237]

Yea. I've been in arguments said fd up sh1t basically go fvck urself stuff and sooner or later I get a call or text "hey what r u doing?" im like uh ok. I usually jusr find out what they want. If they don't want what iwant them to want then I say see ya when I see ya

 

[HBK]

Im always curious about the differences betweek European and American women. Being from europe, women tend to cower behind their phones. I know heaps of guys who have been dumped by Text. Women find it the easiet and most cowardly way to contact and break up with men. I know i have been there. Im america men and women seem to talk alot more by phone. Whats after happening to the lost art of conversation????

 

[tony-montana]

my lady friend was telling me just a few weeks ago that she broke up with the guy on msn cause it's easier

 

[Fallen]

Of course it's worth responding. And it should be done something like this.

I too always ask myself, why they always seem to come back. Either for your attention/company, for not feeling guilty about dumping you in the first place or because of the best sex they ever had.


@HBK: Guess it all depends on the girl. I think it won'T make a big difference where you live. People in general becoming more superficial these times. Companies firing employees by email or have them escorted out of the building without their bosses ever showing up. I heard of people who learned in the news that their job and their company is gone. Most people avoid unpleasant things.

Been dumped by email, by SMS. In my younger years ( pre-cellphone and pre-www ) by a friend of hers telling me on the phone. However i have also been given the classic "Dear John" letter. A face-to-face conversation ( or monologue ) is the rare case.

I'm not much of a dumper. Guess i'm too slow. But whenever it was necessary, i did it face-to-face.

 

[slickaz]

they come back because theyre comfortable..
theyve had s3x with you before, theyre comfortable with you already, and they much prefer not getting themselves off..so they come back and use you...
ive asked my ex when she came back, she said mainly because she didnt feel like a slut sleepin around, and she came back to get some good much needed s3x....i said fair nuf..least she was honest..

 

[decades]

hmmm right on schedule...