"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ex Running Off with Best Friend

Telos

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Has this ever happened to anyone? If so, how did you keep from killing someone?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Randallpink83

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ouch....

sorry man.

I think the worst of it has gotta be losing a friend.

...Just be a man. Leave them alone. Live your life, its all that matters, they are no longer apart of it.
 

feelingloved

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Ya it happened to me, long long ago.
I just told all our mutual friends.
My disgust at the two of them, carried me past any anger.
I was still wounded from my other oneitis a few months previous, cheating... so it all rolled into one. LOL
I just never talked to them any more.
 

KontrollerX

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No, but I lost a girl to a guy that told her he was my friend lol.

Seriously man losing a chick to some scumbag can feel humiliating but another truth of the situation is all they got for their effort was a cheater who will likely do the same to them in the future.

If you can find peace in this truth then no killing ie fighting or actual killing will be done.

If you can't find peace though I'd suggest you beat the living hell out of your ex friend in a secluded area with no witnesses then leave it at that.

Or fvck one of your ex girlfriend's friends if any have displayed interest in you.

Even better if she has a sister or your ex friend does.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Next time you see your "friend" you can say with a big smile on your face....

I ALREADY FVCKED YOUR B!TCH

But, seriously; you just need to move on your life and find a new girl. Thats the best revenge.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alkali

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I've done it before. I didn't know he still had a thing for her.

But then again, that was years ago, when I was young and naive.

I now know it's a general rule, totally taboo in itself.

Did you talk to him? How old are you?
 
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