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[Fvrthebrave]

Ok so, before we broke up, my girlfriend had been hanging out with another boy pretty often. I knew she liked him, it just took a while for her to say it and dump me. So yesterday she was at a skatepark with him and he kissed her. Later on that night, she dumped me. I feel like **** obviously. The weird thing is, we have been together for two years and she decides she likes some other guy, but at the same time she wants me to go to the movies with her tonight. Don't worry, I told her I am too busy to go, but why would she even ask that? I'm pretty sure if we went she'd try to hook up with me which would be plain stupid. I'd have to get up and leave.

 

[Five To One]

Shes unsure if she made the right decision. Women always do indecisive things like this.


Let her know what a big mistake she made by not going to the movies(your already doing this good job) and breaking all contact with this girl. Your potential is much greater than this girl so leave her and dont look back. I really mean it. Trying to win her back will just reasure her that she did the right thing in leaving you. So just forget her.


Plenty of stuff to learn here but you've been in a relationship for the past 2 years. Fvck relationships, escpeically a high school one at that. Read the dj bible if you havent and go from there. Good luck

 

[Fvrthebrave]

Thanks, yeah I cut all contact with her today. I told her if she wanted to talk, she could talk to me in a month or so but that I wouldn't talk to her first. She also keep giving me bull**** about how she will come back to me and that the only reason she left me was because she "wanted to see what else is out there". She keeps telling me that, if her relationship with this new boy doesn't work out, she will realize that she doesn't want anything but me and that she will come back. I realize this is bull**** and I told her that, but she insists that if they don't work out, she is coming back. She doesn't realize that when she comes back, I won't be anything but her friend.

The other thing i don't get is how her new relationship can work. How can she jump out of a two year relationship with me and expect to start a new relationship right after that? She may be fine now, but since we stopped talking, she is probably going to miss me and get all weird with her new boyfriend. I sort of feel bad for her hahahaha XD

 

[RFish]

You should read Metaphysical's Guide for the breakup. Follow through it closely.

I told her if she wanted to talk, she could talk to me in a month or so but that I wouldn't talk to her first

You really don't have to tell her about this

She keeps telling me that, if her relationship with this new boy doesn't work out, she will realize that she doesn't want anything but me and that she will come back.

Yea this is outright disrespect. She is with you for two years and now she wants to explore other meat. So why do you allow her to run around exploring different kinds of meat while you, being a nice guy, sit back and be her safety net waiting for her to fall back one day when she realised that?

How can she jump out of a two year relationship with me and expect to start a new relationship right after that?

You are right. It didn't happen just then. Chances are it happened 6 months ago and she has been keeping this behind your back.

So my conclusion is you did the right thing but within the right things you did wrong. But overall you are heading towards the right direction just follow Metaphysical's Guide okay.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Any updates on this??

 

[joedmango]

Girls are always like that. it feels flattering for them if she knows that all men is following on her, girls love to be torn between different men.

 

[Fvrthebrave]

No updates. I haven't talked to her at all.

Now I'm just having problems with some other girls but it's ok :rockon: